Glee counts - the female roles are actually more multi-faceted and complex than the male. And more various, with more ethnic groups represented. They are also shown in a variety of ways.
So yes, it fits the definition.

On the pickup question? I clearly phrased it wrong. I didn't want to know whether or not people would do it. But what questions you'd ask assuming you did do it - or what you need to know about a person before having sex with them. I went back and clarified.