Spontaneous Musings

I think there's a kind of "fix-it" culture at work in our society. If someone admits to being unhappy or even just somewhat unsatisfied with an aspect of their life, then the usual response is to offer ideas on how to change. The idea of accepting this dissatisfaction is seen as giving up. Actually "given up" is the response I usually give - with a smile - when I'm asked about dating or relationships. It's hard for people to understand that I'm not looking to change.