Yeah, I have the same problem. When I was going on dates, the men seemed very dull and required a lot of effort on my part to keep conversations going, meanwhile guys I was interested in never liked me enough or usually were involved with other people. I'm sure there are a host of reasons on my part as to why this was so, but after spending a lot of my life stressing about it, it really has been a relief to "give up".
I do know people who've had success with online dating, but they definitely treated it like a part-time job and were ruthless in weeding out the duds. Going on dozens of first dates sounds like torture, but that's me.
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Date: 2016-03-22 01:02 pm (UTC)I do know people who've had success with online dating, but they definitely treated it like a part-time job and were ruthless in weeding out the duds. Going on dozens of first dates sounds like torture, but that's me.