Many people seem to experience it in different ways, and differently for different bereavements. But it is a thing, that one can start grieving in advance - though I'm not sure it makes it any less painful when they finally go. My best friend had HIV, and we knew for 4 years that he didn't have long, but it was still devastating. Sorry - that's not any comfort.
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Date: 2021-01-28 09:59 am (UTC)