Year 2 - Day 53
May. 8th, 2021 05:53 pmKind of a rainy/overcast day. Cool. In the low sixties and fifties, I'm wearing sweat pants (got these amazingly soft comfy sweat leggings from LL Bean last year and been wearing them all winter long) and a cotton cashmere blend purple sweater, plus purple striped fluffy socks. Lounging, and dozing. I feel asleep scrolling my correspondence list on DW.
A lot of posts get lost among the folks who post about twenty posts a day.
I'm not whinging, I could filter if I wanted to.
Got into a bit of a heated debate with fans whinging about their favorite character not getting as many episodes as another character - on FB today.
My tolerance for these debates isn't high - so I probably should steer clear of them. I remember fans whinging about Xander not getting as many episodes as Spike. And berating Spike fans about it. Folks? If you don't like the fact that your favorite character isn't the focus of the story or isn't in many episodes, or is rarely seen? Whine to the television writers. Not to the fans of other characters. Actually you have two choices: 1) Stop watching. 2) Write to the show-runner/television writers and complain. That's it.
I never understood this. On the General Hospital Fan Board the Liz fans are berating the Carly fans - that their character has less episodes and Carly gets all the show time. Carly fans aren't going to care. They are watching the show for Carly. You are kind of pissing at windmills. Same with Buffy, Spike fans don't care that Xander has no screen time. In fact, they are probably happy about it. If Xander had more screen time, they'd be whinging or watching something else. Berating each other on whose character has the best story arc or screen time is a waste of energy. If it bothers you? Whine to the writers. Fandom. Sigh. Fandom. Sigh. People are annoying.
So, I took a break from it - and watched The Quartet which is leaving Netflix this Monday, apparently. So, I caught it before it left. Netflix does that - stuff comes and goes. This flick was directed by Dustin Hoffman, and stars Billy Connelly, Maggie Smith, Michael Gambon, Tom Courtney, and Pauline Collins. It's based on a true story, and adapted from a play about various musicians who reside in a nursing home that the Italian Composer Verdi bequeathed to the musicians who performed his works. The film also features all the musicians in various roles, performing the works. It's a beautiful film, and a bit of a bittersweet love story. If you can see it, do.
Considering watching a horror flick next - not sure why, considering I'm still plagued with bad dreams.
The film made me feel lonely.
Talked to my parents today, my father who appears to be drifting further and further into the web of Alzhemiers - a metaphor that my college buddy appreciated. Some people stay in touch with folks from High School, I stayed in touch with folks from college. High school was a relatively small period of my life and not all that interesting, college on the other hand - had a lot more going on.
Mother told me that we don't know who we've touched in our lives or who will miss us. It may be more than we think. Mother's clearly been watching It's a Wonderful Life? No actually, she re-watched West Side Story on TCM, along with the panel with Russ Tambolyn, George Chakiris, and Rita Morena, who'd all remained close friends years later. They spoke about how the dance numbers had changed after Jerome Robbins got fired. They all got along with him - but he could be nasty to people, and the new choreography allowed for acrobatics, when Robbins wouldn't. Robbins was kind of known for being an asshole - particularly to women. I tried watching a documentary on Tex Avery - this morning, only to realize how insanely sexist the man was. But that may have been due to the time period. He made the Looney Toones Cartoons with Chuck Jones back in the 1930s, as a kind of response to Disney. In fact it kind of is like Dreamworks take on Disney and Pixar now. Interesting documentary, just bothersome in ways I'd not anticipated, although I should have - I suppose.
Groggy today. Not sure if its weather, or coming off of an allergy attack. Definitely the pollen, because being away from it - is helping. Also having the robot vacuum sweeping up the dust.
Not much more to add in this update.
Here's another picture of flowers..I identify with the lone orange tulip in a field of dandelions.

A lot of posts get lost among the folks who post about twenty posts a day.
I'm not whinging, I could filter if I wanted to.
Got into a bit of a heated debate with fans whinging about their favorite character not getting as many episodes as another character - on FB today.
My tolerance for these debates isn't high - so I probably should steer clear of them. I remember fans whinging about Xander not getting as many episodes as Spike. And berating Spike fans about it. Folks? If you don't like the fact that your favorite character isn't the focus of the story or isn't in many episodes, or is rarely seen? Whine to the television writers. Not to the fans of other characters. Actually you have two choices: 1) Stop watching. 2) Write to the show-runner/television writers and complain. That's it.
I never understood this. On the General Hospital Fan Board the Liz fans are berating the Carly fans - that their character has less episodes and Carly gets all the show time. Carly fans aren't going to care. They are watching the show for Carly. You are kind of pissing at windmills. Same with Buffy, Spike fans don't care that Xander has no screen time. In fact, they are probably happy about it. If Xander had more screen time, they'd be whinging or watching something else. Berating each other on whose character has the best story arc or screen time is a waste of energy. If it bothers you? Whine to the writers. Fandom. Sigh. Fandom. Sigh. People are annoying.
So, I took a break from it - and watched The Quartet which is leaving Netflix this Monday, apparently. So, I caught it before it left. Netflix does that - stuff comes and goes. This flick was directed by Dustin Hoffman, and stars Billy Connelly, Maggie Smith, Michael Gambon, Tom Courtney, and Pauline Collins. It's based on a true story, and adapted from a play about various musicians who reside in a nursing home that the Italian Composer Verdi bequeathed to the musicians who performed his works. The film also features all the musicians in various roles, performing the works. It's a beautiful film, and a bit of a bittersweet love story. If you can see it, do.
Considering watching a horror flick next - not sure why, considering I'm still plagued with bad dreams.
The film made me feel lonely.
Talked to my parents today, my father who appears to be drifting further and further into the web of Alzhemiers - a metaphor that my college buddy appreciated. Some people stay in touch with folks from High School, I stayed in touch with folks from college. High school was a relatively small period of my life and not all that interesting, college on the other hand - had a lot more going on.
Mother told me that we don't know who we've touched in our lives or who will miss us. It may be more than we think. Mother's clearly been watching It's a Wonderful Life? No actually, she re-watched West Side Story on TCM, along with the panel with Russ Tambolyn, George Chakiris, and Rita Morena, who'd all remained close friends years later. They spoke about how the dance numbers had changed after Jerome Robbins got fired. They all got along with him - but he could be nasty to people, and the new choreography allowed for acrobatics, when Robbins wouldn't. Robbins was kind of known for being an asshole - particularly to women. I tried watching a documentary on Tex Avery - this morning, only to realize how insanely sexist the man was. But that may have been due to the time period. He made the Looney Toones Cartoons with Chuck Jones back in the 1930s, as a kind of response to Disney. In fact it kind of is like Dreamworks take on Disney and Pixar now. Interesting documentary, just bothersome in ways I'd not anticipated, although I should have - I suppose.
Groggy today. Not sure if its weather, or coming off of an allergy attack. Definitely the pollen, because being away from it - is helping. Also having the robot vacuum sweeping up the dust.
Not much more to add in this update.
Here's another picture of flowers..I identify with the lone orange tulip in a field of dandelions.
