I am still trying to understand resiliency. Sometimes one has more strength to deal with the big stuff and the straw breaks one's back. Maybe the bad thing sometimes is so big it confers strength upon you by its sheer size. I have no idea.
I have also found, that you (not you specifically of course) reinterpret your grief forever, that it has to be dealt with, with each new change that comes, because it so informs the new. Scary possibility indeed.
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Date: 2007-10-20 02:49 pm (UTC)I laughed about that line. Very true nonetheless.
I am still trying to understand resiliency. Sometimes one has more strength to deal with the big stuff and the straw breaks one's back. Maybe the bad thing sometimes is so big it confers strength upon you by its sheer size. I have no idea.
I have also found, that you (not you specifically of course) reinterpret your grief forever, that it has to be dealt with, with each new change that comes, because it so informs the new. Scary possibility indeed.
Thanks for this post.