Spontaneous Musings

Good point. That actually backs up another point I made, somewhere else in this thread, about privilege. Where Willow and Buffy's comments about Cordy and Cordy's about Buffy aren't a big deal. But Xander's comments are. Because, of what you state here ....men and teen boys can have sex without fearing shame. Actually they are ashamed if they don't have it. While women are the opposite.