- anything politically nauseating (e.g., any unironic use of the word "fag," mentioning G. W. as an idol, something about keeping "those people" out of our country, being "tickled" by the fact that I want to work outside the home, etc.)
- indications that they would participate in unsafe sex with strangers (i.e. if they had unprotected sex with a girlfriend they dated for two years that's fine, but not with a stranger like me)
- signs of thinly controlled anger or violent urges. I would not want to be with someone in a naked and vulnerable when and if they became unhinged.
- if they are engaged or married.
- if they are seriously intoxicated. Drunk sex in general is just not very good, without even going into consent issues, or regret the next morning.
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branchandroot
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Date: 2010-08-11 07:39 pm (UTC)Deal-breakers:
- anything politically nauseating (e.g., any unironic use of the word "fag," mentioning G. W. as an idol, something about keeping "those people" out of our country, being "tickled" by the fact that I want to work outside the home, etc.)
- indications that they would participate in unsafe sex with strangers (i.e. if they had unprotected sex with a girlfriend they dated for two years that's fine, but not with a stranger like me)
- signs of thinly controlled anger or violent urges. I would not want to be with someone in a naked and vulnerable when and if they became unhinged.
- if they are engaged or married.
- if they are seriously intoxicated. Drunk sex in general is just not very good, without even going into consent issues, or regret the next morning.