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shadowkatThe appeal of Tumblr continues to bewilder me. I think if the only way you engage in social media is via a smartphone, in which case it must be very appealing. But it's wickedly hard to follow. Nor do they appear to say anything.
Example? Topic: "Why isn't the Buffy/Xander pairing more popular?"
Here's the insanely interesting and thoughtful responses:
Or in summary: I love this post, reblog, reblog, I don't know why they didn't, reblog, reblog..
Now doesn't that just make you want to drop everything right now and go join Tumblr??? I do. Not like emails at work aren't head-ache inducing enough.
The most interesting bit? Not to mention creative? The names people have come up with to call themselves on tumblr. I'm particularly fond of robotthatscreams, parsnippletickle, cloverover-dover and cosmic-moon-power. (Oh I adore this sentence: robotthatscreams like this.) And ilikemyshipsnotyours is clever and honest. LOL!
My response to the question at hand?
Why isn't the Buffy/Xander pairing more popular?
1) Doyle Response:
Whedon nixed it because it was boring. (He wasn't wrong.) [That's actually a true story - they pushed it in S7, he nixed it. The rumor: He wanted to do a Wood/Buffy romance, but Gellar talked him out of it apparently...because he was planning on killing off Wood - which she also talked him out of. (I'm not sure I buy that one, Gellar had no clout the final season. If he wanted to do it, he would have.) But the Buffy/Xander bit was true.] Note - when you do a television series that has a superhero and two or three sidekicks, you never ever put the superhero with one of the sidekicks, because after a while its boring, there's no romantic tension. They never put the sidekick with the hero...you'd have to either kill off the sidekick or have some huge problem happen.
In Buffy they avoided it for three reasons, 1)boring. Happy relationships in teen horror drama soap operas are boring because the writers don't know how to create conflict that isn't melodramatic 2) what I mentioned above, and 3) the series writers loved doomed romantic relationships or romantic conflict. The heroine and her friends weren't permitted to be happy in love - their relationships were doomed to failure - because that's how the writers built conflict.
2) Watsonian Response:
The characters don't work together. They are too similar. Both are judgmental, with serious Daddy issues, and quippy. Opposites work better in drama.
I wrote a long essay about it - go here: http://www.oocities.org/shadowkatbtvs/bx_monsters.html
3.)Fandom wise? I was a Xander/Willow shipper until S4. Then I shifted to Willow/Tara, Xander/Anya.
Example? Topic: "Why isn't the Buffy/Xander pairing more popular?"
Here's the insanely interesting and thoughtful responses:
nikiiwi likes this
mcgani reblogged this from luscious2 and added:
Oh, I think that was a miscommunication in my wording. He spies her kissing Angel, but I didn’t mean it in the sense...
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luscious2 reblogged this from mcgani and added:
Correction: Xander never spies on Buffy in Revelation. He noticed Angel walking inside his home and Xander peered...
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ilikemyshipsnotyours reblogged this from thirteenthblackbird and added:
Lol, I’m not entirely sure if that’s true but I do know that season 7 was supposed to have Buffy/Xander but than the...
thirteenthblackbird reblogged this from restfield and added:
In a LiveJournal thread I recently read that Buffy/Xander was supposed to be the romance of season 1 but that Angel was...
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protoneoromantic reblogged this from restfield and added:
Personally, I don’t ship them much because of how deeply I appreciate the beauty of their canon narrative which is so...
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torrilin reblogged this from ilikemyshipsnotyours and added:
Keep in mind I didn’t say “Xander never treats Buffy like a person”. I think he doesn’t do a good job when he’s busy...
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teenageantichrist reblogged this from world-comes-to-an-end and added:
^^yesAnd not to mention the fact that Xander was overly controlling with all of his girlfriends. With both Cordelia and...
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frelling-tralk reblogged this from ilikemyshipsnotyours and added:
To me Xander is a “nice guy” because high school Xander never got over Buffy turning him down. He didn’t handle it...
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magicboxprompts reblogged this from drusillathekiller and added:
Great post!
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liberiangirl85 reblogged this from ilikemyshipsnotyours and added:
I wish the show didn’t have such an open ending when it came to Buffy’s relationships, it would have been nice to see...
Or in summary: I love this post, reblog, reblog, I don't know why they didn't, reblog, reblog..
Now doesn't that just make you want to drop everything right now and go join Tumblr??? I do. Not like emails at work aren't head-ache inducing enough.
The most interesting bit? Not to mention creative? The names people have come up with to call themselves on tumblr. I'm particularly fond of robotthatscreams, parsnippletickle, cloverover-dover and cosmic-moon-power. (Oh I adore this sentence: robotthatscreams like this.) And ilikemyshipsnotyours is clever and honest. LOL!
My response to the question at hand?
Why isn't the Buffy/Xander pairing more popular?
1) Doyle Response:
Whedon nixed it because it was boring. (He wasn't wrong.) [That's actually a true story - they pushed it in S7, he nixed it. The rumor: He wanted to do a Wood/Buffy romance, but Gellar talked him out of it apparently...because he was planning on killing off Wood - which she also talked him out of. (I'm not sure I buy that one, Gellar had no clout the final season. If he wanted to do it, he would have.) But the Buffy/Xander bit was true.] Note - when you do a television series that has a superhero and two or three sidekicks, you never ever put the superhero with one of the sidekicks, because after a while its boring, there's no romantic tension. They never put the sidekick with the hero...you'd have to either kill off the sidekick or have some huge problem happen.
In Buffy they avoided it for three reasons, 1)boring. Happy relationships in teen horror drama soap operas are boring because the writers don't know how to create conflict that isn't melodramatic 2) what I mentioned above, and 3) the series writers loved doomed romantic relationships or romantic conflict. The heroine and her friends weren't permitted to be happy in love - their relationships were doomed to failure - because that's how the writers built conflict.
2) Watsonian Response:
The characters don't work together. They are too similar. Both are judgmental, with serious Daddy issues, and quippy. Opposites work better in drama.
I wrote a long essay about it - go here: http://www.oocities.org/shadowkatbtvs/bx_monsters.html
3.)Fandom wise? I was a Xander/Willow shipper until S4. Then I shifted to Willow/Tara, Xander/Anya.
