Gosh, not sure what to say. I know how hard it is to maintain your self-esteem with no job. I haven't worked since last September by choice to study in a new field. But I get those vibes from others, their comments about how I could've given it all up, how I'm being lazy and useless etc. It's hard to maitain yourself in that environment of negativity because the opinions of others are important to us. Just don't fall into the trap of believing that the job makes you feel worthwhile. You are worthwhile in whatever state you are in, whether geeky-escapist gal or biz-gal. The people who love you understand your situation and the ones that don't are best weeded out. So hang tough, be escapist when you need to be and don't give in to this situation. That will show you that you are confident and have the answers. And when you don't, that's what friends are for.
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branchandroot
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Date: 2004-07-07 07:45 pm (UTC)