Doing the fannish history post has unfortunately brought back unpleasant memories ...we fought in fandom about dumb things on both lj and off. Seriously? Does it REALLY matter if your friend hates Joss Whedon or Spike or Angel or any of those characters with a passion? Isn't there another reason you liked them, (your friend not the characters)? If not, were you friends?
Fandom fights...mostly were about personality clashes. There were just a handful of people that I could not abide in fandom. They were usually the people who could not see a point of view other than their own no matter how many times you tried. Like arguing in a circle. Sort of like the Christian Right or the far Right and far Left in US politics. I'm RIGHT you are sooo very WRONG! You are clearly an idiot and let me start to educate you. And they'd be so SMUG about it. Let me paint the ways that you are wrong. (And sigh, I hate to admit this...but on some topics, such as same-sex marriage and gay rights, I'm just as didatic. I don't understand why people are against same-sex marriage. They have to be idiotic homophobes. There is just no other explanation! Damn it!)
See this is the problem with tv shows that are based on emotion. OR soap operas. The reason TV series like Supernatural, Buffy, Doctor Who (RT Davies - Who at any rate),
Daytime Soaps, Vamp Diaries, etc end up with such strong reactions is to a degree they are about emotion. They elicit strong emotions from the viewer, appeal to the non-rational mind, the gut. And we react to them from that part of ourselves.
I remember wanting to kill people online. Okay, maybe not kill, just kick them.
( Read more... )This is a sort of apology, for being an emotional clod at times. Online. I know I piss people off. But they piss me off too. It seems to be the nature of human interaction, mutual pissing of each other off.