1. The AV Club lists 15 differences between the TV Series Game of Thrones and the books. For me, some made sense, others - such as the rapes - just made the tv series more violent and difficult to watch.
2. Speaking of the Unease over the rape sequences in GoT and other other similar series - apparently, I'm not alone in this : Rising Unease Over Rapes ReCurring Role in GoT.
It helps to understand that rape happens off-page in the books. It's there, but less prevalent and sort of as an after-thought. Whether that's better or worse, I don't know. But it's less in your face. Also being a book - easier to ignore.
Visuals are harder. [ETA: after reading the comments below, I think I've clarified in my head why the rapes in the books didn't bug me as much - it's because they are treated as part of WAR, and not romanticized or shown in a titillating manner. Sex isn't either. While the television series does the opposite. I'm not quite sure why.]
While television has a history of doing rape - it is a matter of degree. And yes, anyone who has watched daytime Soap Operas can attest to rape being a definite and recurring trope - BUT, it is dealt with better, often from the victim's pov and the victim tends to be a survivor and the rapist does weirdly pay for it over time, without being demonized. And, being a soap opera, it's just one of many things.
Prime Time television isn't as good with the portrayal - it's slam bang thank you mam. Soaps explore all the angles. Prime Time uses it either as a plot point to get everyone riled up or to move a character from point a to point b. Sometimes, as in the case of Scandal, GoT, and House of Cards - to make a nasty/villainous female character either weaker, more sympathetic, or understandable. Or in the case of Buffy, to move Spike's story forward and get him his soul. Or in the case of various cop shows - to rile everyone up, and it is often the strongest female character that it happens to. Or in the case of Downton Abbey, a means of focusing on the victim's husband's pain and developing his story. There's an inherent sexism and misogyny in these portrayals, which I think is a reflection of how our society handles gender and rape and it's not a positive one. Culture is a reflection - a mirror. Instead of riling at the reflection, "out out damn spot! or damn, you stupid mirror, I don't have a pimple", I think we should ask ourselves why it is reflecting that? Why do we have that pimple or how did that spot get there? And how can we change it? Instead of throwing out the mirror or throwing a blanket over it.
3. The MTA fired the president of the Long Island Rail Road this week. She was the first female president of the LIRR and served as president the longest - 7 years. LIRR President abruptly fired
I was surprised, but not at the same time. Also on the fence...the devil you know is often better than the devil you don't. But attempting to feel positive about it.
2. Speaking of the Unease over the rape sequences in GoT and other other similar series - apparently, I'm not alone in this : Rising Unease Over Rapes ReCurring Role in GoT.
It helps to understand that rape happens off-page in the books. It's there, but less prevalent and sort of as an after-thought. Whether that's better or worse, I don't know. But it's less in your face. Also being a book - easier to ignore.
Visuals are harder. [ETA: after reading the comments below, I think I've clarified in my head why the rapes in the books didn't bug me as much - it's because they are treated as part of WAR, and not romanticized or shown in a titillating manner. Sex isn't either. While the television series does the opposite. I'm not quite sure why.]
While television has a history of doing rape - it is a matter of degree. And yes, anyone who has watched daytime Soap Operas can attest to rape being a definite and recurring trope - BUT, it is dealt with better, often from the victim's pov and the victim tends to be a survivor and the rapist does weirdly pay for it over time, without being demonized. And, being a soap opera, it's just one of many things.
Prime Time television isn't as good with the portrayal - it's slam bang thank you mam. Soaps explore all the angles. Prime Time uses it either as a plot point to get everyone riled up or to move a character from point a to point b. Sometimes, as in the case of Scandal, GoT, and House of Cards - to make a nasty/villainous female character either weaker, more sympathetic, or understandable. Or in the case of Buffy, to move Spike's story forward and get him his soul. Or in the case of various cop shows - to rile everyone up, and it is often the strongest female character that it happens to. Or in the case of Downton Abbey, a means of focusing on the victim's husband's pain and developing his story. There's an inherent sexism and misogyny in these portrayals, which I think is a reflection of how our society handles gender and rape and it's not a positive one. Culture is a reflection - a mirror. Instead of riling at the reflection, "out out damn spot! or damn, you stupid mirror, I don't have a pimple", I think we should ask ourselves why it is reflecting that? Why do we have that pimple or how did that spot get there? And how can we change it? Instead of throwing out the mirror or throwing a blanket over it.
3. The MTA fired the president of the Long Island Rail Road this week. She was the first female president of the LIRR and served as president the longest - 7 years. LIRR President abruptly fired
I was surprised, but not at the same time. Also on the fence...the devil you know is often better than the devil you don't. But attempting to feel positive about it.
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Date: 2014-05-03 03:13 pm (UTC)In the books the rapes were always part of the horror and what Martin says about rapes in war is pretty much what I always said when people said it was misogynist that there was so much rape in the books.
It is a book about the horrors of war and rapes happen every day in the wars of our world (also outside of wars, but it wars they still are routine).
The viewer is imho intended to be at least in part aroused by it. And that is the part where I find the show so much more misogynist and objectifying than the books ever were...
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Date: 2014-05-03 04:20 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2014-05-03 06:50 pm (UTC)The Jamie/Cersei scene was almost comical in how it was directed. And unnecessary. We didn't need it. And the Dany/Drago rape was...titillating, which was beyond creepy and made it difficult to invest in that romance.
Neither rape happened in the books. Both scenes were written very differently.
I keep thinking - why? Why did they do that?
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Date: 2014-05-05 07:09 am (UTC)The threat of rape which hangs over Dany, Brienne at some point and over Sansa is never treated as something offhanded. In the end Cersei is the only POV character who has rape (by Robert not by Jamie) in her history.
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Date: 2014-05-03 05:20 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2014-05-03 06:44 pm (UTC)The tv series -- feels almost like it is glorifying sexual violence. We are in the male gaze. Unfortunately this is not solely relegated to GoT, it's prevalent in Television. Also it's not just one cable network or channel. Or one writer.
You can go back to S2...with Joffrey and his sadistic sex play, or as far back as S1 with Theon and his use of women as objects, or Drago and his rape of Dany (none of which had happened in the books). Nor had the scenes with LittleFinger and his whores.
It would be one thing if it was an isolated occurrence, but it has become repetitive and prevalent. I'm starting to question the writing choices. Why is this happening? Why are they making these choices? Are they even aware of it? GRRM clearly was writing a novel similar in tone to Suzanne Collins Hunger Games - depicting the horrific effects of WAR and a fight over power on the human being, specifically children (the protagonists - Bran, Dany, Jon, Sansa are all 7-14 years of age in the books). But I'm not sure what the television writers are doing.
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Date: 2014-05-05 07:26 am (UTC)I agree. And like you wrote, they added so many sexually violent scenes that were not in the books. While cutting out those that where not exploitative (say Tyrion with Shae) and also the sexual violence that was so horrible that no one could possibly be titillated by it (say the gang rape of Lollys).
It really makes the show pretty skeevy.
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Date: 2014-05-06 01:54 am (UTC)It seems to be a trend with cable shows in the US, lets show graphic violence as entertainment, because we can.
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Date: 2014-05-03 07:01 pm (UTC)In the tv series - there is a sort of titillation factor or undercurrent that has begun to grate on my nerves. Rapes are shown from a male perspective - not the female perspective. The male gaze is overwhelming in this show. It's making it hard for me to continue watching it.
The bits I enjoy in the tv show, I've found are the bits that that gaze is not prevalent. The others..I'm finding I want to fast-forward through, well that and anything involving Theon.
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Date: 2014-05-05 07:28 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2014-05-06 01:51 am (UTC)Martin's books dealt with violence in a realistic manner. Reminded me more of maybe The Wire or Homicide Life on the Streets. It wasn't violence as entertainment, but as a depiction of society at its worst.
And it's not just sexual violence, the torture scenes in the show are excessive.