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1. Still making my way through She-Rah and the Princesses of Power - I'm on S3 at the moment. It is getting better as it goes, but I wish the animation was better. Ugh.

2. I finally got around to watching Disclosure on Netflix, which I highly recommend. It's not perfect, but it does provide some insight into the transgender community, through their perspective. It's a documentary that focuses on the transgender entertainment community - ie. the actors and actresses within the community, along with the entertainers, and their struggle.
long spoilery review )
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I'm up early waiting for an a/c delivery due to arrive in fifteen or twenty minutes. So, passing time posting.

1. Found THIS interesting piece about a mysterious group that is slowly hacking its way through Brietbart's advertising base one tweet at a time. Thanks to conuly for the link.

I found it interesting in regards to the comments about free speech.

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Another example of censorship... The banned 1910 Magazine that started a feminist movement in Japan.


She led the men through the large house and down the long corridor to the rooms that served as the magazine’s headquarters. The men looked around and spotted just a single copy of the magazine’s latest issue. They seized the publication and, as they were leaving, finally told the surprised young woman why they had come. This issue of Seitō had been banned, they told her, on the grounds that it was “disruptive of the public peace and order.”

The young women who had created the magazine less than a year before had known it would be controversial. It was created by women, to feature women’s writing to a female audience. In Japan in 1911, it was daring for a woman to put her name in print on anything besides a very pretty poem. The magazine’s name, Seitō, translated to “Bluestockings,” a nod to an unorthodox group of 18th-century English women who gathered to discuss politics and art, which was an extraordinary activity for their time.


Continuing on the thread of the First Amendment and Censorship...

Views Among College Students Regarding the First Amendment.

Sort of surprised me. We had more rights in college regarding expression in the 1980s. And a lot of discussion about it. The Author is John Villasenor - Nonresident Senior Fellow - Governance Studies, Center for Technology Innovation. Apparently college kids can now post research thesis on the internet.

[ETA: Apparently this is junk science and not verified with facts...according to an article in the UK Guardian. Which by the way throws a whole new angle on the whole free speech bit...do we have the right to spread false information on the internet or poorly researched data? OR should we have the right to do that? Should that be stopped? Well, you do run into the slippery slope of what constitutes false information and who should be the judge. Right now the alt-right lead by Trump is claiming any news that disagrees with or disparages their message is fake news. Anything that calls their information into account or questions it. Which is a bit...well, telling in of itself and definitely censorship. By labeling news that questions you as fake news or critiques you, or fact-checks something you said as fake news...you are attempting to censor your opposition and that's dangerous. That is censorship. So the Guardian questioning this student's thesis is correct. They are fact-checking him. While Trump telling people not to watch say CNN or refusing to provide information to news sources that have critigued him the past as an attempt to shut them down is censorship, because he's the President of the US (like it or not). If he was a private citizen with no power over the media, he could say whatever he damn well pleased. But as President, what he states... is a whole other matter. ]

And this is another example of infraction of Free Speech, where the news media is forced to support a governmental objective or regime...

Sinclair Broadcasting is forcing all 174 stations that they own across the country to air daily pro-Trump propaganda segments..

See this is why I ignore broadcast news, and only watch NY1 (Time Warner) or NY Times and check sources.

Good news? The a/c came. Bad news? Have to get super to install. Good news? Current A/C appears to be sort of working at the moment. Which made me question decision to get new one. Have decided to treat it as a gift. It's working until I install new one. And it's not really working -- only the fan, and it won't go below 75 degrees effectively.
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1. Already irritated for various reasons not worth going into, a shelf fell on my head, while I was attempting to get my grill out from the lower shelf. Luckily only plastic ware was on the shelf. The little plastic thingamigs that held said shelf in place broke off or came undone for no discernible reason and the shelf fell. This is worrying me, because its the second shelf that's fallen. And I don't know if the shelves holding my glasses will follow suit. I complained to the super but the prior shelf, but nothing.

So, am sending an email to management company tomorrow to advise that the shelves keep falling and it's dangerous. And I need someone to fix the shelves that they clearly constructed in a poor and faulty manner.

2. I have eclipse glasses, whether I'll use them or not, no clue. I will be working at the time. And the eclipse is around 2:45 PM. I've set my television to record the news specials on it, where they are showing it live around the country.

Also there aren't really that many trees around my building or places to see it. I work in a city.

Apparently there are people out there who have no idea what an eclipse is. One wonders about our educational system.

Actually, I've been wondering about it since the Doofus got elected.

3. Here's a nifty Trailer for a Television Anthology Series Based Solely on Philip K. Dick stories entitled Philip K. Dick's Electric Dreams. It's apparently Australian produced, with Bryan Cranston and Ronald Moore at the executive producing, show-running, etc helm. Amazon has rights in the US, Channel 4 has rights in Great Britain.

4. Bloody tired of the seemingly endless debate on the ugly confederate statues and monuments.

Anyhow, I got irritated enough to waste time doing a bit of research on the topic.

The NY Times has a good article about the bloody statues, which were erected by, the Daughters of the Confederacy, along with various other white supremacists over time. Confederate Statues and Our History"

And Where and When they Were Erected -- although not sure how accurate that is.
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From: Confederate Monuments History..

* From the Atlantic The Stubborn Persistence of Confederate Monuments
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* Aha, found the article stating that the silly statues were mass produced from pre-fabricated parts and as artistic as well the wrought iron molding on your gate, although some people see that as art, I guess.

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Why Those Confederate Soldier Statues Look a Lot Alike

* List of Hate Speech Cases From the US Supreme Court Note, Hate Speech is NOT protected under the First Amendment. But, most people don't know what it is.
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Just found this US Court Decision posted by Lawyers for Good Government on FB. It's inspiring.


Our country has a long and ignominious history of discriminating against our most
vulnerable and powerless. We have an equally long history, however, of brave
individuals—Dred Scott, Fred Korematsu, Linda Brown, Mildred and Richard Loving,
Edie Windsor, and Jim Obergefell, to name just a few—who refused to accept quietly the
injustices that were perpetuated against them. It is unsurprising, of course, that the burden
of confronting and remedying injustice falls on the shoulders of the oppressed. These
individuals looked to the federal courts to vindicate their claims to human dignity, but as
the names listed above make clear, the judiciary’s response has been decidedly mixed.
Today, G.G. adds his name to the list of plaintiffs whose struggle for justice has been delayed and rebuffed; as Dr. King reminded us, however, “the arc of the moral universe is
long, but it bends toward justice.” G.G.’s journey is delayed but not finished.

G.G.’s case is about much more than bathrooms. It’s about a boy asking his school
to treat him just like any other boy. It’s about protecting the rights of transgender people
in public spaces and not forcing them to exist on the margins. It’s about governmental validation of the existence and experiences of transgender people, as well
as the simple recognition of their humanity. His case is part of a larger movement that is redefining and broadening the scope of civil and human rights so that they extend to a vulnerable group that has traditionally been unrecognized, unrepresented, and unprotected.

G.G.’s plight has shown us the inequities that arise when the government organizes
society by outdated constructs like biological sex and gender. Fortunately, the law
eventually catches up to the lived facts of people; indeed, the record shows that the
4 Commonwealth of Virginia has now recorded a birth certificate for G.G. that designates
his sex as male.

G.G.’s lawsuit also has demonstrated that some entities will not protect the rights of
others unless compelled to do so. Today, hatred, intolerance, and discrimination persist —
and are sometimes even promoted — but by challenging unjust policies rooted in invidious
discrimination, G.G. takes his place among other modern-day human rights leaders who
strive to ensure that, one day, equality will prevail, and that the core dignity of every one
of our brothers and sisters is respected by lawmakers and others who wield power over
their lives. G.G. is and will be famous, and justifiably so. But he is not “famous” in the hollowed-out Hollywood sense of the term. He is famous for the reasons celebrated by the
renowned Palestinian-American poet Naomi Shehab Nye, in her extraordinary poem.Despite his youth and the formidable power of those arrayed against him at every stage of these proceedings, “[he] never forgot what [he] could do.”




And it ends with a beautiful poem by Palestine-American Poet Naomi Shehab Nye, entitled "Famous".


N. S. Nye, Famous

The river is famous to the fish.

The loud voice is famous to silence,
which knew it would inherit the earth
before anybody said so.

The cat sleeping on the fence is famous to the birds
watching him from the birdhouse.

The tear is famous, briefly, to the cheek.

The idea you carry close to your bosom
is famous to your bosom.

The boot is famous to the earth,
more famous than the dress shoe,
which is famous only to floors.

The bent photograph is famous to the one who carries it
and not at all famous to the one who is pictured.

I want to be famous to shuffling men
who smile while crossing streets,
sticky children in grocery lines,
famous as the one who smiled back.

I want to be famous in the way a pulley is famous,
or a buttonhole, not because it did anything spectacular,
but because it never forgot what it could do.
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I couldn't figure out how to post pictures to DW, they only permit urls for some reason. So I posted to LJ and will include a link to that post here:

http://shadowkat67.livejournal.com/1279213.html

Over 300,000 people marched in the Women's March in NYC today. Below are photos from our march from 47th Street to 2nd Avenue, then 2nd Avenue to 42nd Street, and 42nd St to 5th Avenue. The March was to be from 2nd Avenue to 42nd, 42nd to 5th, and 5th to 56th, but they stopped it at 50th apparently and re-routed to 1st Avenue, because of the area around Trump Tower has been blocked off. Or so we were told. Doesn't matter, at 4PM, I'd made it as far as 42nd and 3rd Avenue. I jumped out with a friend at 3rd and 42nd, a couple of blocks from 5th Avenue. We'd been marching from roughly 11:30 AM to 4PM. We bailed at 4PM. Our feet quite numb from the cold. It was supposed to be in the 50s, but felt more like the 40s. The whole time, I was thinking, a nice hot bath would be wonderful and maybe a cup of hot coco.

I journeyed home and took a nice hot bath. The trains were screwy today. Several weren't running at all, two on other lines. It was a mess. And the city hadn't prepared for 300,000 marchers, they'd expected only 60-75,000. DC had over 500,000, the expectation had been 100,000. Chicago, over 200,000. Boston, also over 200,000. LA came close to 400,000. Denver was close to 100,000. My mother was telling me over the phone that CNN was showing pictures of it from around the world and the size of the protests was inspiring. People came out in droves, all races, all ages, all people.

I'm glad I did it. It was amazing. People were kind, helpful and considerate. And all in agreement.
We were unified in our horror at the election of Trump and what has transpired since then. We are horrified at the friends, family members, and co-workers who had voted for him. One woman stated her mother had, and then was praying for World Peace, wondering if that was an oxymoron. There was one sign, I didn't capture a photo of -- "It's so bad, Introverts came."

My friends turned and pointed at me -- yep, even I came. And I never do these things. But I felt I had to this time.
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Loretta Lynch, the Attorney General of the United States discusses a Federal Civil Rights Law Suit against North Carolina

That's history in the making folks, check it out. And yay to Loretta Lynch, who fights for basic human rights for all regardless of gender definition, sexual orientation, race, etc.



This is not the first time that we have seen discriminatory responses to historic moments of progress for our nation. We saw it in the Jim Crow laws that followed the Emancipation Proclamation. We saw it in fierce and widespread resistance to Brown v. Board of Education. And we saw it in the proliferation of state bans on same-sex unions intended to stifle any hope that gay and lesbian Americans might one day be afforded the right to marry. That right, of course, is now recognized as a guarantee embedded in our Constitution, and in the wake of that historic triumph, we have seen bill after bill in state after state taking aim at the LGBT community. Some of these responses reflect a recognizably human fear of the unknown, and a discomfort with the uncertainty of change.



But this is not a time to act out of fear. This is a time to summon our national virtues of inclusivity, diversity, compassion, and open-mindedness. What we must not do—what we must never do—is turn on our neighbors, our family members, our fellow Americans, for something they cannot control, and deny what makes them human. This is why none of us can stand by when a state enters the business of legislating identity and insists that a person pretend to be something they are not, or invents a problem that doesn’t exist as a pretext for discrimination and harassment.



and this..




Let me also speak directly to the transgender community itself. Some of you have lived freely for decades. Others of you are still wondering how you can possibly live the lives you were born to lead. But no matter how isolated or scared you may feel today, the Department of Justice and the entire Obama administration wants you to know that we see you; we stand with you; and we will do everything we can to protect you going forward. Please know that history is on your side. This country was founded on a promise of equal rights for all, and we have always managed to move closer to that promise, little by little, one day at a time. It may not be easy—but we’ll get there together.



It's not always, but sometimes, I am proud of my federal government. This was a good day.
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Aggravating day, supposed to go to New Members meet and greet tonight at church, but I just want to go home, veg, watch the wire, and sleep. Slept horridly this week and very cranky as a result.

So a spot of good news that I wish to share:

Two onzine links:

*http://www.srilankaguardian.org/2011/06/historic-decision-at-united-nations.html

*http://www.towleroad.com/2011/06/breaking-un-human-rights-body-passes-historic-resolution-in-support-of-lgbt-rights-anti-discriminati.html

The UN press release is below!

Historic Decision at the United Nations:
Human Rights Council Passes First-Ever Resolution on Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity


"(Geneva, June 17, 2011) In a groundbreaking achievement for upholding the principles of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights (UDHR), the United Nations Human Rights Council has passed a resolution on human rights violations based on sexual orientation and gender identity (L.9/Rev.1).

The resolution, presented by South Africa along with Brasil and 39 additional co-sponsors from all regions of the world, was passed by a vote of 23 in favour, 19 against, and 3 abstentions. A list of how States voted is attached. In its presentation to Council, South Africa recalled the UDHR noting that “everyone is entitled to all rights and freedoms without distinction of any kind” and Brasil called on the Council to “open the long closed doors of dialogue”.Read more... )
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The government should respect the decisions that all individuals make about marriage, because the government is the servant of individuals, not of the majority; it is the protector of individual rights, not of popular opinion; and lastly, it is the great preventer of fraud and violence. In this capacity, a formal recognition of lasting intimate unions — a formal recognition of all marriages — will do much to add dignity and security to the lives of those concerned. How and How Not to Oppose the MPA by by Jason Kuznicki
http://positiveliberty.com/2006/06/how-and-how-not-to-oppose-the-mpa.html

Unfortunately the governments, not just of certain areas in the US but other places around the world, have a long history of abridging and infringing on individual rights. Human history is an ugly place filled with human rights infractions that we forget at our own folly. But memory is selective and people tend to remember those things that support what they wish to believe.

Today, the Supreme Court of the State of New York ruled that a marriage between two individuals of legal age and of the same gender or sex was illegal under the laws of the State of New York. This landmark ruling places New York in the history books alongside Nazi Germany.

In 1935 Nazi Germany ruled that marriages amongst certain individuals were illegal. Individuals who were not deemed proper or meeting the qualifications set by German society – were gathered up and placed in concentration camps, many were put to death. Amongst those individuals were Jews, Homosexuals, Transgendres, Gypsies, and Political Prisoners.

The Nuremberg Race Laws of 1935 deprived German Jews of their rights of citizenship, giving them the status of "subjects" in Hitler's Reich. The laws also made it forbidden for Jews to marry or have sexual relations with Aryans or to employ young Aryan women as household help. (An Aryan being a person with blond hair and blue eyes of Germanic heritage.) http://www.historyplace.com/worldwar2/holocaust/h-nurem-laws.htm

But what does a Nuremberg law prohibiting an interracial/interfaith marriage between someone of Jewish decent and a Gentile have to do with a law prohibiting same-sex marriage? And more to the point, did the Nazi’s really discriminate against homosexuals? Many people erroneously believe that the only victims of concentration camps were Jews; they weren’t, any more than they were just Gypsies or homosexuals. Straight people may not think that laws against homosexuals affect them. They may even be in support of them, not seeing how this could be detrimental. It reminds me a little of that old proverb that came out shortly after World War II quoted by Martin Niemoller, a Lutheran minister who opposed the Nazis:

“In Germany, they first came for the Communists and I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a Communist. Then they came for the Jews, and I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t a Jew. Then they came for me, and by that time no one was left to speak up.” http://teacher.scholastic.com/products/classmags/holocaust_toc.htm


Did you know:

After the war, homosexual concentration camp prisoners were not acknowledged as victims of Nazi persecution.[1] Reparations and state pensions available to other groups were refused to gay men, who were still classified as criminals — the Nazi anti-gay law was not repealed until 1969. They could be re-imprisoned for "repeat offences," and were kept on the modern lists of "sex offenders." Under the Allied Military Government of Germany, some homosexuals were forced to serve out their terms of imprisonment, regardless of the time spent in concentration camps.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_Gays_during_the_Holocaust

Or:

Statistical information on hate crimes in the US during 2004 - the largest three are not suprisingly, crimes based on sexual orientation, religion, and race.
http://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0004885.html

How much do you want to bet that the majority of crimes committed against homosexuals are based on religious justifications? More evil in this world has been committed in the name of God than we would like to admit. The Spanish Inquisition. Queen Mary’s bloody reign against the Protestants. Her sister, Elizabeth’s, reign against the Catholics. The Crusades. The Concentration Camps. Slavery.

Dahlia Lithwick talks about “God’s preferences” argument and “how it harms children” in her article on Slate.com entitled “The Maddening Slippery Slope Argument”:

The real problem is that there are really only three arguments against gay marriage: One is rooted in entirely God's preferences—which have little bearing on Equal Protection or Due Process doctrine, as far as I can tell. The second cites inconclusive research on its negative effects on children. The backup is the slippery slope jeremiad, which seems to pass for a legal argument, at least on cable TV. But fear of the slippery slope alone is not a sufficient justification for doing the wrong thing in any individual case. In a superb dialogue on gay marriage in Slate, Andrew Sullivan, responding to David Frum, makes this point eloquently: "The precise challenge for morally serious people is to make rational distinctions between what is arbitrary and what is essential in important social institutions. ... If you want to argue that a lifetime of loving, faithful commitment between two women is equivalent to incest or child abuse, then please argue it. It would make for fascinating reading. But spare us this bizarre point that no new line can be drawn in access to marriage—or else everything is up for grabs and, before we know where we are, men will be marrying their dogs."
http://www.slate.com/id/2100824/

What she does not go into is why the “God’s preferences” argument has no bearing and should not have any bearing on the Equal Protection doctrine and why we don’t want it to. First of all what is the Equal Protection doctrine? And why should I care? Equal Protection doctrine is the doctrine that provides us with certain inalienable rights – such as marrying whom we see fit, practicing whatever religion we choose, and living where we wish. ie. Everyone is granted “equal protection” under the law.

If you are a member of a country’s majority religion than you probably won’t care, but what if you aren’t? What if you are living in Nazi Germany and are Jewish? Or in England during Queen Elizabeth I’s reign and are Catholic? What if the religion that the majority practices dictates that there shall not be any inter-faith marriages, as Nazi Germany dictated, or any inter-racial marriages as Virigina and other states dictated in the 1950s in their so-called miscengation laws? What if the religion the majority practices tells you it is against God’s plan to see a doctor, that God can heal you? (There quite a few religions that do believe this.) Or that it is against God’s wishes that you marry a Gentile? Or against God’s wishes that you marry someone who has not been confirmed a Catholic? It all goes back Martin Neiumeller’s argument, doesn’t it?

* In 1948, the Supreme Court of California took a giant step toward ending the regime of miscegenation law when it broke an sixty-five year string of post-Reconstruction judicial precedents and declared California's miscegenation law unconstitutional. Speaking for a deeply divided court, Justice Roger Traynor flatly rejected the shopworn claim that miscegenation laws applied "equally" to all races. "A member of any of these races," Traynor explained, "may find himself barred by law from marrying the person of his choice and that person to him may be irreplaceable." "Human beings," he continued, "are bereft of worth and dignity by a doctrine that would make them as interchangeable as trains." "The right to marry," Traynor insisted, "is the right of individuals, not of racial groups." Nineteen years later, in 1967, in the case of Loving v. Virginia, the United States Supreme Court agreed, this time in a unanimous decision written by Chief Justice Earl Warren. "There can be no doubt," Warren wrote, "that restricting the freedom to marry solely because of racial classifications violates the central meaning of the Equal Protection Clause."

The Loving decision spelled the formal end of America's three-century-long history of miscegenation laws, though opponents of interracial marriage didn't give up overnight. Alabama, for example, waited until the year 2000 to remove the miscegenation provision from its state constitution. By and large, however, Americans adjusted remarkably quickly.
Why the Ugly Rhetoric Against Gay Marriage Is Familiar to this Historian of Miscegenation by By Peggy Pascoe.
http://hnn.us/articles/4708.html

It took until 1962 with Loving vs. Virginia for the US Supreme Court to make miscegenation laws unconstitutional. It took until the year 2000 to remove them completely. To put this in context for you – these laws meant that you were not allowed to marry anyone outside your own race. You were put in prison if you did. I know at least three or four people who would be serving prison time and whose kids would be misplaced if this law were still in effect.

On July 6, 2006, New York could pat itself on the back for doing two things – both of which uphold a legal tradition, one having the same law in place as Nazi Germany did in the 1935, and two having a law that has a great deal in common with the miscegenation laws of the 1940’s. When asked what he thought of the court ruling today, Governor Pataki, a man of few words, stated that it was not only a good ruling but it was supporting a hundred year old tradition that marriage should only be between a man and a woman. I wonder how Governor Pataki felt about the miscegenation laws, which were also in effect for quite a lengthy period of time before being overruled?

Why are people for a law against same-sex marriage? I don’t understand. I keep flipping over the reasons. No one has provided me with a reason that makes logical sense that is not deeply rooted in religious superstition and ignorance. If you can think of a good reason, please share it.

The main reason, the one provided to me by my work colleagues is because they feel that it degrades their beliefs and their marriage, that it weakens the sacrament of marriage, that it allows children to be raised without a parent of each sex – which they feel on an emotional not intellectual level is wrong. If you ask people why, the reasons they provide usually have God in the midst of them. Personally I doubt God cares. God wants us to love one another. A law against same sex marriage is not about love.

Now, let me explain something to you - two people getting married does not in any way affect you. Unless of course you happen to be in love with one of them or are their child or live with them, their marriage does not affect your life. No more than your neighbor across the street deciding to paint their house violet affects you. Or your decision to pierce your nose, navel and get that tattoo across your forehead with a swastika affects your neighbor. It may affect you emotionally. It may annoy you. It may offend you. But you can choose to ignore it. You can move away. You are not harmed physically by it. It does not infringe on your rights as protected under the law. And it does not change your rights or beliefs or views.

Two people of the same sex getting married are not telling you that you can't get married. They have not changed the status of your marriage. They are not taking your children from you. And they have not in any way shape or form infringed on your religious beliefs. Even if they got married in your church, synagogue, mosque, temple, what have you that would not infringe on your beliefs.

Also, two people of the same sex getting married does not mean that they are going to have sex on your front lawn, in the street, or with your young underage children. Any more than you getting married to someone of the opposite sex means that you will do any of these things. Thinking so is illogical. There is no basis in this fear.

There is no evidence that children raised by same-sex parents are any worse off than children raised by single parents, aged parents, or what society considers is the norm. I refuse to have children over the age of 46 and refuse to do it as a single parent, I want to give the child the same things I had. That is important to me. Just because I feel this way does not mean that I think others have to behave like this. Everyone is different. Everyone experiences life differently. We are not the same. If you know anything about domestic violence and child abuse - children are harmed by as many heterosexuals as homosexuals. There is no evidence stating otherwise.

So why do straight people care?

Why do religions?

Why do people who insist that others to be tolerant of their beliefs, their way of life, their ethnicity, so intolerant of someone else's?

The quotes I’ve cited are the result of the little research I did. There’s more information out there, if you are willing to hunt it down. I did the research because I’ve been debating writing a post much like this one but had decided it was a tad on the presumptuous side, also I'm probably just preaching to the choir, but then the judgment came down and well, I've had it up to here with people dictating what I can or can't do with my life and I can sympathize with others feeling the same way.

It enrages me that one male friend of mine can get married in two weeks and have a family, settle down, buy a house, have full benefits - while another male friend, a total sweetheart of a guy, can't. Why? Because he is GAY.

How would you feel if it were the other way around? If the other guy, who happens to be Jewish, were not permitted to get married to his fiance, who happens to be Catholic, because of a law ? (That law existed in Nazi Germany in the 1940's. And may still exist in some countries where interfaith marriages are frowned upon.) Would you care? Even if you weren't Jewish or Catholic? Or are you thinking, wait that is different. How is it different? How is a religious preference different than a sexual one? You can choose what religion you practice. You do not have to be Catholic, no matter what some Catholics think – it’s not genetically pre-ordained, and you do not have to be Jewish, there are quite a few people out there who have chosen not to be Jewish. You cannot however choose your sexual orientation. That is in your genes. That is biological. Who we love is not just based on intellectual attraction, it is also based on physical attraction. So if that is the difference, doesn’t it stand to reason to permit the same-sex marriage over an inter-faith one? Personally, I think both should be permitted.

Marriage should be about making children?

We are at a stage in our evolution in which that is not necessarily so. Nor should it be. There are people every day who are not equipped mentally or psychologically to raise kids who are having them like rabbits. While others, who are psychologically and mentally equipped to have children have artificial insemination or fertility pills or adopt. Modern medicine has made it possible for anyone, for a price, to have a child. Also not all people who have kids should remain married. In some instances the marriage is harmful to the children. Not all people who get married and love one another should have children. Everyone is different. Also if we go down that slope - what about the people who have bi-polar disorders or mental illnesses? They get married, they have kids - should we prohibit them as well? Where do you stop the rule? Who gets to be protected and who doesn't? The people you like?

The bible says so? The bible is a religious doctrine that is only held sacred by a specific number of religions and open to interpretation. Also which bible? The Koran? The Torah? The Catholic Bible? The St. James? The bible for wiccans? The Mormon Bible? The Christian Scientist Bible? Scientologist Bible? Let’s limit it to the Christian Bible, which translation are you quoting? Which interpreter? Also how do you know that it is God's word and not just the writer's? Your pastor says it is? If your pastor told you to leap off a cliff – would you? You believe it is? Why should your beliefs be held over everyone else's? What makes you so special? Well, I'm not, it's what the majority thinks. Yes, and the majority of Nazi Germany thought it was a good idea to exterminate the Jewish population. And hey, they may have gotten the idea from a book too. Some priest's even supported it. After all look what the Jewish people allegedly did to Jesus. The majority does not always make good decisions. If we learn anything from History, or the Bible for that matter, we can learn that. The majority elected Richard Nixon, who in the 1970s was impeached for an illegal cover-up. The majority in the US supported the slave trade in the 1800s and well several years before that. The majority supported the Romans in crucifying Jesus on the Cross. And the majority felt that inter-racial marriage was wrong.

Also it's not necessarily the majority - a Baltimore, Maryland court just ruled in favor of same-sex marriage. The Judge stating that “societal values and traditions” should not dictate a couple’s right to be married. People who believe it does conveniently fall behind those boundaries. I wonder how you would feel if the Nuremberg Laws were still in place? If you did not fall within those boundaries.

Why does a heterosexual woman care about this? Why should heterosexuals care at all? Well, let’s ask another question, why should Americans have cared about the German Jews in the 1935-1945? We didn’t, you know. Or our government didn’t. We got involved in that war only after we were attacked in 1942 at Pearl Harbor, by the Japanese. We went after the Germans so that England would help us with Japan. The War had been going on for at least three long years before we deigned to get involved. It wasn't any of our business. Because why on earth should we care about a bunch of jews, homosexuals, and gypsies being slaughtered in concentration camps half a world away?

When you abridge someone else’s rights you open a door to having your own abridged. Yes, I know it sounds like the slippery slope argument, but is it? Do you want the government, any government telling you who you can love and settle down with? And worse, justify it with a religious doctrine you may or may not believe in?

People, I’ve learned, are good at telling others how to live their lives but don’t like it much when someone starts telling them how to live theirs. We are, like it or not, hypocrites. But we can choose. We can learn. We can read history and choose not to repeat it. Some traditions should not be upheld, they should be spit upon.

There is nothing more inherently evil than infringing on someone else’s right to love another person, get married and have a life with that person. To do so, opens a door that I’m not sure we can close, a door that leads only to more restrictions and more pain.
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