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On Saturday, Bro took me for a hike along the Rail Trail in Stuveysant Falls, NY. Stuveysant Falls is a small town up in Columbia County near where my brother lives in upstate New York, in and around the Hudson River Valley, East of the Catskills.

The town is aptly named for the falls, which in the late to mid-19th and early 20th centuries, prior to the industrial age, empowered the rail line - a hydro-electric trolley system that ran from roughly New York City to Buffalo, connecting all the small towns, and also provided power to various communities in a sustainable way via the hydro-electric and lumber mill.




I didn't read the above anywhere, I got it mainly from my brother. They have a rusted wrought iron and steel bridge that requires replacement, with signs, help save our bridge.

ME: So are you helping them save their bridge?
Bro: why would I do that?
ME: uh...

The falls are quite lovely, and normally there's a lot of water that goes over them - in cascades. But we've been in a bit of a drought.

Me: Everything is so dry -
Bro: It is fall, things die off.
Me: Yes, but we also have a drought.
Bro says nothing.
Me: so, it's drier than usual.

Bro hadn't slept well, just finished having company the previous week (his wife's cousin visited for a week from Sacramento (she literally left the same day I arrived - this isn't on me, I had no idea she was visiting), and was just a touch cranky.



As you can see, it's a rather dry falls, with not a lot of water cascading down it.

While walking the Trail, we ran across a huge truck, carrying a long tank (one of those tankers). I assumed it was gas, but no, it was human feces (aka poop) and sewage. My Brother informed me that they spray the sewage on the crops as fertilizer - and you can smell it for miles.

Me: I suppose that's a good way to dispose of the sewage - fertlizes the crops, kind of like -
Bro: Not at all. I mean you'd think - but consider all the chemicals in that? And PFAS that are in the sewage and feces (aka poop).
Me: What are PFA's? (I'd heard the term before, of course, but couldn't remember what they are.)
Bro (in full lecture mode): They are forever chemicals, also carcinogens, which can't break down and aren't biodegradable. Once a week - they come out here in the fall, summer, spring months and spry the agricultural fields with this fertilizer. So our food carries all these carcinogens. They think it's ecologically sustainable - but it's not, because of all the other chemicals and things that end up in our sewage. So, the best of intentions and all that...

And people in New York wonder how they get cancer. It's not God folks, or random. It's people unknowingly spraying our crops with carcinogens.

Picture of field being fertilized by human sewage:
agriculture field that was sprayed )

We talked about this for a good twenty minutes, while walking at a brisk pace. My brother is 6'5 and in good shape. I'm 6 foot and not in good shape. I was huffing along, and just barely managing to keep up, and from his perspective he wasn't walking that fast. It made me appreciate poor Wales and my mother, who don't even bother trying to keep up with me.

Then we switched over to how they dispose of human feces (poop) at camp sites. Mainly because I was trying to come up with an environmentally sustainable way to dispose of human waste. (Short Answer: There really isn't one.) And a safe topic to discuss with my brother, which he was knowledgeable on, and I didn't have to talk all that much during.

So yes, we talked about the disposal of human poop for about an hour.

Without going into too much gritty detail, learned the following:
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If you're thinking at this point that my brother is a wee bit overly concerned about the disposable of human poop - he's not. I swear.

A somewhat better picture of the falls:



And no, I didn't take any photos of the truck or the poop. But I did take a picture of the area in which they were spraying, along with the little fish pound in front of it. As you may or may not be able to see below, it's quite picturesque.

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On Thursday, we went to Jarvis Park - which is a 53-acre park and includes a large pond, fishing pier, open fields, picnic shelters, playground, restroom facilities, an one-mile walking trail and workout stations.

Pathways extend all over the park and around the lake creating a one-mile loop. The lakeside paths extend out into wooded areas. The paved trail is equipped with wooden bridges over marshy areas, so no one has to get their feet too dirty.



It's a sanctuary for water fowl and alligators.

alligators and water fowl, mostly egrets, although there is a great blue heron in there somewhere )

And yes, the sky was that clear and that blue the whole time I was there. We got a little rain on Friday afternoon - for about twenty minutes, per down pour. But that was mainly it, also a little on Saturday when I arrived.



And the yellow daisies were in full bloom...fall on the island is rather pretty.

pretty flowers )
And finally...the egret standing sentry on the posts of the dock. There were actually two of them on both posts - but I couldn't take a good picture of it - the posts were too far apart. The egrets were so still they looked like statues, and when they took off - I was somewhat startled by the sudden movement.

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Above is NYC at sunset, taken from the plane, over 20,000 feet above the city.

Returned around 6:30 pm, and disembarked around 6:45 or so, because the gate agent wasn't at the gate. When we left the plane, there was a booming alarm at our gate - and literally no one in that section of the terminal.
It was like an episode out of the Twilight Zone. The entire section was empty. The only people at gates 81-89 were the people on the small plane from Hilton Head. Also upon exiting these gates, there was no one but us on the way to baggage claim or on the way out of the building. There were more people at Hilton Head's tiny airport - and most of those were on the plane with me.

It took a good twenty-five minutes to get to the cab line. And there was no one there, but the person checking in the cabs and well fifty some cabs all waiting for passengers that did not appear. I was the only one who popped up. The guy driving my cab, who hailed from Jordan by way of Suffolk County, Long Island - said he'd been waiting over three hours.

It was kind of unsettling. I've never seen such an empty airport - and Laguardia, no less. I wondered what happened.

The cab ride home was for the most part uneventful - although after driving around Hilton Head for the last eight days - I've decided New York Drivers, specifically NYC drivers are insane. They should all have their licenses revoked. Anyone who thinks it is safer driving a car in NYC - is crazy.
When we pulled up in front of my apartment complex - which is a narrow street along side Ocean Parkway - it's basically one way street, walking/biking median, four lane street, island, one way street. With parked cars on both sides, and street lights. Anyhow, when we pulled up and I was busy hunting money to pay the cabbie - and having troubles seeing it in the dark - all the dingbat cars that lined up behind us and had decided to pull out of their parking spots to do so - honked at maxium volume behind me. I gave them the finger, and cursed them out. So did the cabbie.
It was a red light, they couldn't go anywhere anyhow. Again, I rest my case, New York City Drivers are insane.

Upon entering the apartment building - I discovered two things: 1) that they are replacing all the laundry machines, and the money machine, and raising the prices (per the sign on the door), and 2) my fire alarm was apparently low on batteries after all and beeping a mean streak. It wasn't steam, it was a low battery. The super took it down, told me to get a new batter, and he'd reinstall, early next week. (I have tall ceilings and you need a ladder to get to it.)

I'm tired, and after a week at my mother's house - feel an overwhelming urge to declutter. I need to get rid of books, papers, and organize clothing. It's also cooler here.

Below is a photo of my last day in Hilton Head...we ate at the Crazy Crab (I had a shrimp and crab boil, and mother had crab cakes. I couldn't finish it - so I packed up the rest of the shrimp and potatoes (red potatoes) for Mother to eat tomorrow. The shrimp had to be peeled.) Also had a frozen strawberry margarita - to take the edge off my nerves. Outside of eating, we sat and watched people and boats in the harbor. The Crazy Crab has been on Hilton Head Island for fifty years.

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My father used to say that, along with things like "Good on you", and "Wherever you are, There you are", and "That's Alright? It's alright." He's been on my mind a lot of late, and I couldn't seem to stop talking about him over the holiday. It was as if...he was everywhere, yet nowhere at the same time. If that makes any sense? While down there...mother asked if I wanted my father's left over art supplies, and the wooden suitcase style box that he carted them around in. Also, she wanted me to take his watercolors, which he worked so hard on, and was so proud of, and display them - once she was gone, or if anything happened to her. Here's one of them, and I took pictures of all five. I like them, so I'll take them, no problem. (My father and I had similar tastes in art.)



Although home really is where the folks I love are.. it is nice to be in my own space again, with my laptop, my own bed, fridge, kitchen, etc. My life is in NYC, my Momma is in Hilton Head. Such is life. Also the people I love are kind of across the globe. And in NY, of course.

Also as lovely as Hilton Head is, I did miss NYC in some respects. Read more... )

It was a lovely and uneventful visit. Mother has a persistent cough, but it wasn't a contagious one. Although she became convinced this morning, for some reason or other that it was COVID. So insisted on taking a test in her armchair. I tried to tell her it was supposed to be done on a hard service - but to no avail. She took another one after she dropped me off at the airport, and it was negative too. I think it may be a blood pressure medication issue. But she will check with her doctor again. I worry about her, but alas, there is nothing I can do.

We did enjoy each other's company, talked about my Dad, whom she misses every day - but has managed to find a way to enjoy her life without him there. She's lonely though, I think. But she has friends, and people who care about her. Also, in a way, having my father at the Preston and their separation helped her get used to his absence, at least enough, to make it bearable. She reminds me a lot of her own mother, in her resourcefulness and determination to find the joy in small things. I try to emulate them both.

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I'm not a fan of regaling folks with the gifts that I've received or provided. Let's just say, everyone was grateful and happy. I found this season - that I felt very ambivalent about Christmas. Although I did help Momma decorate her tree, and remove the decorations. It turned out nicely, I think...



She put the other decorations up herself. But the tree - she discovered she could get maintenance to put up and take down. They do so many, and do it faster than we do. There was a brief scare though - on Thursday night, we had a deep freeze, and Mother felt the need to drip her outside faucets. (I figured okay, that's not a big deal, and let her go out and do that. Big mistake.) Mother, without telling me and for reasons that escape me, decided she had to put sheets over her hibiscus and a fern. She was trying to protect them. And due to where the hibiscus is located, she almost fell over. Actually she did, kind of fall, but didn't hurt herself. Just over-exerted herself. She came back inside, wheezing, and I got worried. I also told her not to do that again, and next time to ask me to do it. It was completely futile of course - since it was windy, and the wind blew the sheets off the plants. Both got frozen, and she lost the hibiscus, alas. (Also, most likely the fern.) Hilton Head doesn't usually get temperatures below 32 degrees F.

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My brother got COVID, most likely from his trip up to Montreal with his family. Fever, cough, sore throat, no voice. His doctor told him to hold off on taking the anti-virals. He's feeling better today, but now, his wife seems to have come down with it. (They had four of the five vaccines, but not the biavalent. I've also had four of the five, but the biavalent, not the booster in May. Also I was all Pfizer, they were all Moderna. Mother has had five of the five - all Moderna. Niece got COVID twice, once in May, and again in October or November, so she's probably immune at the moment.)

He apparently went to a spa that is operated off of a barge in Montreal. And had one of the best prepared meals of his life - six-seven courses, with a different wine entry for each course.

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Over the holidays, mother and I went to the musical A Christmas Story at the Hilton Head Self Family Arts Center - which puts on repertory and touring productions of various musicals and plays throughout the year. In the past, we've seen Hello, Dolly, My Fair Lady, Mary Poppins, Singing in the Rain, White Christmas, Newsies, and a few others. Some are better than others. Mother and I went in with low expectations for this one. (Last year they put on Elf, which we skipped, since neither of us have been able to make it through the film version - let alone a musical adaptation. At least we enjoyed the film version of A Christmas Story.)

It was a lot better than I thought it would be. Read more... )

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I think the Universe took pity on me, and decided to give me an uneventful holiday? I didn't get sick. Allergies weren't an issue. No flight delays (outside of a very brief one on the way down. The flight crew was late coming out of Boston, so we were delayed about an hour, if that). By the LaGuardia is amazing. Read more... )

When I got into JFK - it was wall to wall people. My god, I've not seen that many people in an airport in a long time. Read more... )

***

Mother saw six movies over the holiday.

1. The Last Duel (Hulu) - starring Jodi Comer, Matt Damon, Ben Affleck, and Adam Driver. Directed by Ridley Scott. We were pleasantly surprised by it. It's actually a very good movie. Adapted from a true story - it is told in three perspectives. Read more... )

[Available on Hulu]

2. Bullet Train - this was enjoyable and funny. A kind of action/comedy. It stars, Brad Pitt (making fun of action heroes again), Sandra Bullock (she's not really seen through most of the movie), Joey King, and a whole lot of other folks. Directed by David Leitch.

It's fast action. About a group of seemingly unrelated folks brought together on a Japanese Bullet Train to Russia. Except - they are all somehow connected to a Russian Assassin, known as the White Death (portrayed by Michael Shannon). It's better to go in blind, so won't tell you anything else. Half the fun is figuring it out. Mother and I were having a blast figuring out the movie, with it's fast talking banter, and twists and turns.

[Available on Netflix]

3. Glass Onion: Knives Out Mystery directed by Rian Johnson, who is having fun parodying, satirizing and playing homage to Agatha Christie's
parlor room mysteries. Standing in for Hercule Poirot, is Daniel Craig's bumbling Benoit, who has a thick Southern Twang.
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[Available on Netflix.]

 
4. Wild Mountain Thyme by John Patrick Shanely, who apparently did Moonstruck. (It's not Moonstruck). It stars, Christopher Walken, Emily Blunt, Jamie Dorman, and Jon Hamm.

I found it to be a bit slow in places. Read more... )

[Available on Hulu]

5. Code Name Banshee - stars Antonio Banderas in a small role. It's okay.
Lots of action. Kind of boring. I went to sleep during it. Read more... )

6. Charade - Cary Grant, Audrey Hepburn, Walter Matheu, George Kennedy, and James Coburn round out the cast of the best Hitchockian film not directed by Hitchcock. It was also recently added to the Library of Congress - one of the 25 selections added to that film library.

It's an interesting film. Charming and twisty. Also, suspenseful. I'd forgotten most of it - even though I'd seen it at least twice previously.

It's available on TCM Movie Classics.

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Yawn.

Going to bed. I got up early - and had a busy day. Tomorrow will be busy too - my goal is to get rid of things, while waiting for a package. Friday - I plan to go into the city and buy a new, short, coat from Macy's.

Leaving you with a picture of the beach. It was too cold to go to the beach until roughly Tuesday afternoon. So mother and I went, she only went as far as the boardwalk. She can't walk very far. But there's a little gazebo there that she can sit and wait at - which overlooks the ocean. It's a new addition. I walked out to the water - since it was low tide and the beach was flat as a pancake, flatter actually, and the water exceptionally calm.


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1. Kind of fun and definitely useful

As the number of air travelers rises, returning to near-prepandemic levels, so do questions about flying protocols and rules — particularly what travelers can and cannot take in their carry-on luggage when flying within the United States. For instance: Is guacamole a solid or a liquid? (It’s a gel, which falls under the same restrictions as liquids and is not allowed in your carry-on — unless it’s inside a 3.4-ounce container.)

Here’s a guide to help you navigate the more ambiguous carry-on rules — with some quiz questions throughout to test your knowledge, too.


2. Today gave me a headache. That is all.

3. Mother agreed with me, that my father's funeral is beginning to remind her of a wedding, in particular her own - apparently it also only had four Catholics in attendance.

I told her about one of the responses to my post on how my uncle was planning on doing my father's funeral.
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This came up because my brother went to Buffalo and Niagra Falls to get a new suit. (I don't know why he didn't drive to NYC to do it. My brother's logic and me tend to be unmixy things, it's actually one of the reasons we don't get along.)
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Frigging hell, he went to get a suit and to Niagra Falls with his wife.
I want my brother's life.

Meanwhile, I'm day-dreaming about taking an excursion to either The Little Island or Governor's Island - apparently you can camp or glamp on Governor's Island in luxury tents and cabins" (which I don't know, is that even camping? Kind of takes all the allure out of the sport. It's camping for people like myself who hate sleeping on the ground and want my own private bathroom and shower at my beck and call). Of course you have to book months in advance, because hello, NYC. Everything in NYC has to be booked in advance - we've got 12 million people plus tourists, so approximately 15 million people. Apparently there are people fleeing NYC? If so, more power to them - I wish more people would. Go, shoo. Flee to Pennsylvania and preferably Kansas City. (Although it is awfully hot in Kansas City at the moment - I can see why you might not want to flee that far.)

There are things that don't need to be booked in advance - things no one really knows about.

Today on the way home from work - they had cordoned off the streets around BAM for a street fair of sorts. It was a pleasant surprise - it meant I could walk obstacle free to the subway. No pesky cars and bikes to bar my path. Sure there were inflated bounce rooms. One was designed as a giant Wall E (it was ugly and looked like a haunted house), and another was a huge slide or a series of slides. Inflated bounce rooms are weirdly popular at the moment. You'd think the pandemic would make it the opposite - but no. The Worlds Biggest Bounce House is Coming to Brooklyn This Fall - or in September. [It's coming to the park near Brighton Beach or to the east of it. I can't get there - I'd need to find a friend with a kid and a car, and ...well...it's not like I'm into Bounce houses. I've never really understood the point of them to be honest. I'm more of a water park kid. But it would be fun to do with kids.] Anyhow, no clue what the fair was about - something regarding "Epic Solutions", the NYPD even had a booth - so I'm thinking a youth job fair.

It was definitely warm enough - and no rain.

4. Worried again today whether I'm nice. Okay worry isn't quite the right word. I pondered whether I was nice. I really need to block out my co-worker's conversations. I wear earphones, it should be easy. Maybe I should invest in ear pods which I can wander about in?

I don't feel nice at the moment. I'm too frustrated with everybody and everything to feel nice. I feel I have no control over anything and am sort of trapped.

Trying to find the positives. My life's never been that traumatizing, which is why...I can't say things have ever gotten necessarily better.

Mel: We're thinking things have to get better soon, right? You've worked here a long time...what do you think?
Me: I don't know. They got really bad for a bit back in 2009-2014 or thereabouts, before you came on board. We went a good five years without any raises, promotions or hires, and everyone was either over-worked or had no work since we were in a recession and had no money. Then you came on board and we got promoted and got raises, and things were good. Then we all move to 347, and well...hired more people, then wham. So what I can promise? They'll be different. But better? Eh, matter of perspective, I guess.

I pondered this later with mother over the phone.
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I think life is annoyingly vague. And it's really hard to judge anyone's life including our own because of that. For the most part - after a while it feels a bit like a fever dream.

I've been listening to the Sandman, so that's clearly affected my views on this. Well that and this thing I saw on ...Twitter - posted by shipperx,
The Most Famous Paradox in Physics Nears its end

Growing evidence supports what physicists have long suspected: In some way or other, space-time itself seems to fall apart at a black hole, implying that space-time is not the root level of reality, but an emergent structure from something deeper.

So basically time folds in on itself, and as seemingly linear thinkers in a seemingly non-linear universe, our perception of reality itself may in fact be a mere construct of our mind to make sense of things and live in an ever changing and unknowable universe.

And I just gave myself another headache.

Too much thinking for one day. Time for bed.

Here's hoping your day was better than mine, or at the very least no worse.
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Well after throwing myself a pity party with all the trappings - you know, woe is me, I'm all alone, no one cares, might as well go outside and eat worms deal-I pulled myself together, drank some Bailey's, took a walk, called my family, and watched some DVDs. more the plane/staying here stuff- cut for length, but not whiney, as far as I can tell )

Regarding the DVDS...which you're probably more interested in any ways.

Seen three so far:
1. The Day After Tomorrow - which I found hilarous in places. (I seriously doubt it was intended to be a funny movie, but honestly who could take this thing seriously? 100 tornados devastate LA in 20 minutes. LOL! Oh, a tornado just erased the Hollywood sign. It might have worked if they'd spent more time building the characters and less trying to sell the pseudo-science theory. The trick to a disaster film is the same trick to a horror film - character. If you don't care whether the characters live or die...it's bloody hard to take their peril seriously. That said I enjoyed it - very funny, but I'm a sucker for a disaster film, particularly bad ones.)

2. Dodgeball. This was a pleasant surprise. Quite the hoot. I laughed hard throughout. It was just too absurd for words. And the humor reminded me a little of Bad Santa. That wry, unbelieveably crude wit - that it's almost ludicrously so? That you find yourself laughing in spite of yourself. Also the alternate ending? Must watch the alternate ending with the commentary turned on.

3. Delovely Wasn't sure how I'd like this one. It came highly recommended. My father adores it - but then Dad's a jazz/Cole Porter fan.
Yet - he doesn't usually like bio-picks. So I was curious. But tentatively so, because I'm not a huge fan of the bio-pic either. They are either overly melodramatic or empty - as if you are watching a series of scenes about the character, but never feel as if you know them or really see them. Telling stories about make-believe characters is easier for us than real ones, we can
take more liberties - explore them in depth. Real ones? It's like your touching them with kid gloves - the real person or the ghost of the real one stands in the way. American Splendor sort of got around this dilemma in 2003, by bringing the real deal inside the film. Harry Pekar and his wife and friends were featured alongside the actors playing them. This worked to a degree - yet, I still felt that odd sense of remoteness. Same thing with the
pic "Man in The Moon" - which was very funny and featured a virtuso performance by Jim Carrey, yet still had that sense of remoteness.

Delovey...also has a sense of remoteness to it. You do feel distanced from the main character. So it may be inescapable.

But, it is a good film. Not a great film perhaps. But a good one. Takes a very unique approach - instead of doing what most of these films about songwriters do - ie. a chronological history of their life, this film takes place within the last five minutes of Cole Porters life. It's Cole Porter looking back through his life - with the idea of the wall-less theater as the stage and backdrop for it. Cole Porter's songs are used to bridge the scenes and introduce new scenes and characters. Key moments in his life are enhanced by a song that fits each one. Is it a musical? Yes. But not the traditional/conventional type. Do the characters sing and dance? Yes. Tap and swing. Lots of piano music. Very 30s style jazz - reminiscent of Kiss Me Kate and the Sinatra period. Is it a love story? Yes, and no. It's a love story about a gay man in love with a woman. The movie attempts and succeeds I think in capturing the life of a man that was not clear-cut or easily explained. And it does so by exploring what it would be like to watch your life from the end of it - to revisit certain key moments, yet have no control over their direction or how they visit you.

The movie also focuses on the love story between Cole and his muse/wife, Linda, more than on the other aspects. We do get his music and bits and pieces of the theaterical work he did. But the focus is not on that - that is used more as a backdrop a way of exploring the character. It's not about - oh Cole wrote this song and this song, it's more, this song describes this moment in Cole's life or how he felt here. And each song is sung by a different and atypical performer - Alainis Morrissette sings "Let's Fall in Love" as an actress in a play that we see Cole putting on - Kevin Kline as Cole starts the song, and she picks it up halfway through, Elvis Costello is singing Let's Misbehave in the background of a party scene in Venice. Robbie Williams sings Delovely during Cole and Linda's wedding. The songs are performed wonderfully.
And do enhance the picture. I left it humming.

The DVD - has some nice extras - a Behind the Scenes bit on the music,
the making of two scenes, a Behind scenes bit on the Making of the film,
and audio commentary by the Director/Kevin Kline as well as audio commentary by the Director/Screenwriter Jay Cocks. You can choose which one. I did watch a few moments of the one with Kline - which went into detail about the makeup process - you can also get this in the Making of the Film.

Do I recommend the film? Yes. But with certain caveats - it is a musical and does feature to a great extent Cole Porters songs. If you don't like that type of music, this is not your film. If you do? You'll be in heaven. It is also a love story, but of the platonic variety. Very interesting and complex. Yet also a little slow in places - which may be just a failing of bio-pics, pacing always seems to be a problem in bio-pics. I think the reason might be the fact that in real life - the pacing can be incredibly slow. Let's face it our lives don't tend to move as quickly nor are as fascinating as the make-believe one's on film. In the attempt to capture the "real life" of a "real individual" on screen or even in a book - the creator has a tendency to recapture the pacing of it. There's always a period of time - that nothing much happens and we
get a musical overlay showing that drift. Also unlike make-believe movies, real life isn't neat, you don't get happy endings, and too much stuff happens to fit into two or three hours. You can't condense it. Delovey makes an excellent attempt and an entertaining one. For a bio-pic, I'd say it was very entertaining and well worth a visit.
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