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shadowkatThe biggest problem with moving is all the changes. You'd think there wouldn't be that many, since I just moved 12 minutes away, but there are. Getting up earlier, leaving my apt earlier in the morning, due to the 15 extra minutes on the commute. And certain conveniences have changed or are further away. Plus the noises, neighbors, and smell is different. No birds tweeting, of course it is fall, but lots of locusts. Very quiet. But rumbling about above me - sounds like they are moving furniture around. Lasts a little while, then stops. And today someone was playing the electric guitar quite badly for about an hour and a half in the apt next door.
I like it better, don't get me wrong. For one thing, I have a bath tub. One I can actually stretch out in and take a soaking bath. People take these things for granted. You've no idea what a rarity they are in NYC apts. Also a decent size kitchen that I can cook in without running into things, or juggling for space. And a dark/quiet bedroom. An elevator. Few steps. But I haven't figured out when to do laundry yet. And a little wary of the whole online bill payment thing. It's going to take time to adapt, I think.
I did see the newest Doctor Who episode - Listen, and now I understand the posts on my flist and the varying reactions. It was an interesting episode in that it dealt with various things that I've been thinking about lately. But I admittedly had troubles watching it - the commercials drove me bonkers. Every 15 minutes. And I can't fast-forward through them as easily or efficiently like I could with Time Warner. Time Warner had fast-forwarding and rewinding down to a science. Cablevision does not. Each time I try - I skip over the tv show and land on the commercial, when I rewind, I get caught in a loop, where it skips to 41 minutes than back to 44 minutes, then back again, driving me bonkers. Ugh. Tempted to call customer service and ask : why does this function suck and when will you fix it?
Anyhow...I now totally understand why two people thought of politics while watching Listen. Or related the episode to unrelated politics. (The other one was an American female, not a British male, as I original thought). It's due to the message, which is admittedly counter to what you would expect. At the end of the episode - Clara Oswald tells the Doctor that "fear is a good thing," repeating in a way what he told her and a young boy earlier in the episode - where he states that it provides adrenaline - a fight or flee response, making you super-powered for a bit. (Which is a good and bad thing - depends on what you do with it, who you are afraid of, and well the situation, I expect.) Clara states: "Fear can unite people in a cause and that can be a wonderous thing." Well, it depends. Sort of reminds me of a friend's statement about how the majority is seldom wrong. Hmmm. Again, it depends on the majority. Nazi Germany was wrong, and was united in fear. OTOH, the allies were right to fight them, and also united in fear of what the Nazi's and Japan intended. I think the focus in the sentence needs to be "CAN" that Fear "can" unite. It doesn't always. Sometimes.
But getting back to why I personally found it to be fascinating, and why it resonated for me on a certain level? Two things - first "LISTEN".The Doctor is told to LISTEN and tells others to LISTEN, but ironically, he doesn't listen. He spends a lot of time talking. Very rapidly. (I used to think this was a British thing, but I think it's just a Doctor thing.) And when he does listen he doesn't quite hear it clearly. He's baffled. I think one of the most ironic things about the information age - is that everyone is so busy talking, tweeting, texting, posting, etc that they aren't really reading or listening carefully to what is actually being said. We are in the age of scanning, skimming, and skipping. Too much information after all. We are distracted, too busy multi-tasking - watching tv while surfing the net, driving while talking on a phone, texting while watching a movie (really wish people would not do this). I certainly was distracted while watching Doctor Who, and later while attempting to watch Rectify (read a magazine, popped on the internet, went to the bathroom, did stretching exercises). And we have all these interruptions. If you are on the phone, someone buzzes in interrupting your conversation or your service clicks off. Or in person, you are chatting, and your friend or your own cell phone rings and of course you answer it - stopping the conversation or maybe during it, you sneak a quick text to Face Book or twitter. I've seen this happen in a lot of meetings. And if you are on the internet, reading this post - how much of it did you really read? I admit, I'm no better - I misread two posts in my scan, one I thought was about Doctor Who, was in reality about Marvel Agents of Shield (embarrassing). I need to stop skimming.
I remember on a fan board way back in 2003, a friend of mine wrote a comment in response to a poster about "writing carefully", and I thought afterwards, reading and listening carefully is equally important. If you don't, and you respond or not as the case may be - much chaos may ensue. We aren't passive when we read or listen. We do affect and change what is being said by our mere act of listening or not listening carefully. How we listen can change or influence what is actually said.
For example? I skimmed over my flist last night. There were several reviews on the Doctor Who episode Listen. I just read the blurbs, nothing beneath the cut, in order to avoid spoilers. Two of the posts I misread. One was discussing Marvel Agents of Shield not Doctor Who. The other stated, Doctor Who and unrelated politics. I went back tonight and read both - and upon doing so, understood better what I'd read. But before doing that, I posted on what I thought I'd read in my own livejournal in which I said two posts related Doctor Who to politics and didn't seem to like it that well - resulting in various comments and criticisms of those two posts - stating how in the heck could anyone link that episode to politics. Now, having watched the episode myself and re-read the posts - I see how not reading them carefully, yet commenting on them - caused confusion and chaos. This is a minor example of how we can screw things up by not listening or reading something carefully. Sabotaging ourselves, the original post, and others in the process - and spreading misunderstanding and confusion.
When we listen or read something we engage in a conversation. In a Slate article about film actors - which I posted about recently, the writer states that actors who listen well - are better than those who don't. They provide meaning to the words being said or a reaction, giving context to the scene and action. The Doctor in this episode LISTENS to Clara tell him as a small boy that fear is not necessarily a bad thing, and it is okay to be afraid, and he, in turn, imparts to Clara some of what she told him.
The other bit that resonated, and can be interpreted more than one way depending on what is going on with you at this moment in time, was the dialogue on FEAR.
The episode has a clever twist. We are told a scary story by the Doctor about monsters beneath the bed. Something in the dark to fear. That we can't look at. And disappears when we do. The story is The Doctor's childhood nightmare. He is relating an old nightmare, of something grabbing him from underneath the bed. Of being afraid of the dark. A nightmare all children have. The twist is that it is actually Clara who had inadvertently grabbed his ankle as a child, while she was hiding beneath his bed. She'd traveled to his timeline by mistake, and had to cover her tracks. And it is Clara who tells the boyhood version of the Doctor that it is just a dream, to sleep, and that Fear is not a bad thing. It's okay to be scared. That it can motivate us to do things, unite us with others who are also afraid. (This is an early episode, I have a feeling these words are meant to be twisty and are going to come back and bite Clara later. Also they are unreliable - white lies adults tell children to sooth them. Note she similarly soothes Rupert with the soliders protecting his bed when he has a similar nightmare. So, I remain uncertain the extent we are meant to take these words to heart.)
To an extent, Clara's correct - fear can motivate us. It is a powerful thing. But it can equally paralyze. As it does Rupert on both the date with Clara, and as a small boy, and as it does with the Doctor, who as a small boy, hides crying in his bed, terrified. To help both boys overcome their paralysis, the Doctor and Clara talk about fear in a positive manner - stating how fear can provide adrenaline, bolster courage, protect you, save you, and unite you with others. But the reverse is true as well...and that belies the message. Both know this - considering went happened last season. Fear can also paralyze, cause horrible acts of violence, lynch mobs, and war. Rupert the Solider - who went to WAR and killed people, who cries now because of it. Or the Doctor who ran away with the Tardis, and has committed acts that he is ashamed of, out of fear. It's a double-edged sword fear. Fear is what created the Dalek's after all. Well that and hatred. Which is why I'm not sure how tongue firmly in cheek this message was meant to be.
One of the better episodes that I've seen. Definitely the best one this year.
I like it better, don't get me wrong. For one thing, I have a bath tub. One I can actually stretch out in and take a soaking bath. People take these things for granted. You've no idea what a rarity they are in NYC apts. Also a decent size kitchen that I can cook in without running into things, or juggling for space. And a dark/quiet bedroom. An elevator. Few steps. But I haven't figured out when to do laundry yet. And a little wary of the whole online bill payment thing. It's going to take time to adapt, I think.
I did see the newest Doctor Who episode - Listen, and now I understand the posts on my flist and the varying reactions. It was an interesting episode in that it dealt with various things that I've been thinking about lately. But I admittedly had troubles watching it - the commercials drove me bonkers. Every 15 minutes. And I can't fast-forward through them as easily or efficiently like I could with Time Warner. Time Warner had fast-forwarding and rewinding down to a science. Cablevision does not. Each time I try - I skip over the tv show and land on the commercial, when I rewind, I get caught in a loop, where it skips to 41 minutes than back to 44 minutes, then back again, driving me bonkers. Ugh. Tempted to call customer service and ask : why does this function suck and when will you fix it?
Anyhow...I now totally understand why two people thought of politics while watching Listen. Or related the episode to unrelated politics. (The other one was an American female, not a British male, as I original thought). It's due to the message, which is admittedly counter to what you would expect. At the end of the episode - Clara Oswald tells the Doctor that "fear is a good thing," repeating in a way what he told her and a young boy earlier in the episode - where he states that it provides adrenaline - a fight or flee response, making you super-powered for a bit. (Which is a good and bad thing - depends on what you do with it, who you are afraid of, and well the situation, I expect.) Clara states: "Fear can unite people in a cause and that can be a wonderous thing." Well, it depends. Sort of reminds me of a friend's statement about how the majority is seldom wrong. Hmmm. Again, it depends on the majority. Nazi Germany was wrong, and was united in fear. OTOH, the allies were right to fight them, and also united in fear of what the Nazi's and Japan intended. I think the focus in the sentence needs to be "CAN" that Fear "can" unite. It doesn't always. Sometimes.
But getting back to why I personally found it to be fascinating, and why it resonated for me on a certain level? Two things - first "LISTEN".The Doctor is told to LISTEN and tells others to LISTEN, but ironically, he doesn't listen. He spends a lot of time talking. Very rapidly. (I used to think this was a British thing, but I think it's just a Doctor thing.) And when he does listen he doesn't quite hear it clearly. He's baffled. I think one of the most ironic things about the information age - is that everyone is so busy talking, tweeting, texting, posting, etc that they aren't really reading or listening carefully to what is actually being said. We are in the age of scanning, skimming, and skipping. Too much information after all. We are distracted, too busy multi-tasking - watching tv while surfing the net, driving while talking on a phone, texting while watching a movie (really wish people would not do this). I certainly was distracted while watching Doctor Who, and later while attempting to watch Rectify (read a magazine, popped on the internet, went to the bathroom, did stretching exercises). And we have all these interruptions. If you are on the phone, someone buzzes in interrupting your conversation or your service clicks off. Or in person, you are chatting, and your friend or your own cell phone rings and of course you answer it - stopping the conversation or maybe during it, you sneak a quick text to Face Book or twitter. I've seen this happen in a lot of meetings. And if you are on the internet, reading this post - how much of it did you really read? I admit, I'm no better - I misread two posts in my scan, one I thought was about Doctor Who, was in reality about Marvel Agents of Shield (embarrassing). I need to stop skimming.
I remember on a fan board way back in 2003, a friend of mine wrote a comment in response to a poster about "writing carefully", and I thought afterwards, reading and listening carefully is equally important. If you don't, and you respond or not as the case may be - much chaos may ensue. We aren't passive when we read or listen. We do affect and change what is being said by our mere act of listening or not listening carefully. How we listen can change or influence what is actually said.
For example? I skimmed over my flist last night. There were several reviews on the Doctor Who episode Listen. I just read the blurbs, nothing beneath the cut, in order to avoid spoilers. Two of the posts I misread. One was discussing Marvel Agents of Shield not Doctor Who. The other stated, Doctor Who and unrelated politics. I went back tonight and read both - and upon doing so, understood better what I'd read. But before doing that, I posted on what I thought I'd read in my own livejournal in which I said two posts related Doctor Who to politics and didn't seem to like it that well - resulting in various comments and criticisms of those two posts - stating how in the heck could anyone link that episode to politics. Now, having watched the episode myself and re-read the posts - I see how not reading them carefully, yet commenting on them - caused confusion and chaos. This is a minor example of how we can screw things up by not listening or reading something carefully. Sabotaging ourselves, the original post, and others in the process - and spreading misunderstanding and confusion.
When we listen or read something we engage in a conversation. In a Slate article about film actors - which I posted about recently, the writer states that actors who listen well - are better than those who don't. They provide meaning to the words being said or a reaction, giving context to the scene and action. The Doctor in this episode LISTENS to Clara tell him as a small boy that fear is not necessarily a bad thing, and it is okay to be afraid, and he, in turn, imparts to Clara some of what she told him.
The other bit that resonated, and can be interpreted more than one way depending on what is going on with you at this moment in time, was the dialogue on FEAR.
The episode has a clever twist. We are told a scary story by the Doctor about monsters beneath the bed. Something in the dark to fear. That we can't look at. And disappears when we do. The story is The Doctor's childhood nightmare. He is relating an old nightmare, of something grabbing him from underneath the bed. Of being afraid of the dark. A nightmare all children have. The twist is that it is actually Clara who had inadvertently grabbed his ankle as a child, while she was hiding beneath his bed. She'd traveled to his timeline by mistake, and had to cover her tracks. And it is Clara who tells the boyhood version of the Doctor that it is just a dream, to sleep, and that Fear is not a bad thing. It's okay to be scared. That it can motivate us to do things, unite us with others who are also afraid. (This is an early episode, I have a feeling these words are meant to be twisty and are going to come back and bite Clara later. Also they are unreliable - white lies adults tell children to sooth them. Note she similarly soothes Rupert with the soliders protecting his bed when he has a similar nightmare. So, I remain uncertain the extent we are meant to take these words to heart.)
To an extent, Clara's correct - fear can motivate us. It is a powerful thing. But it can equally paralyze. As it does Rupert on both the date with Clara, and as a small boy, and as it does with the Doctor, who as a small boy, hides crying in his bed, terrified. To help both boys overcome their paralysis, the Doctor and Clara talk about fear in a positive manner - stating how fear can provide adrenaline, bolster courage, protect you, save you, and unite you with others. But the reverse is true as well...and that belies the message. Both know this - considering went happened last season. Fear can also paralyze, cause horrible acts of violence, lynch mobs, and war. Rupert the Solider - who went to WAR and killed people, who cries now because of it. Or the Doctor who ran away with the Tardis, and has committed acts that he is ashamed of, out of fear. It's a double-edged sword fear. Fear is what created the Dalek's after all. Well that and hatred. Which is why I'm not sure how tongue firmly in cheek this message was meant to be.
One of the better episodes that I've seen. Definitely the best one this year.
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Date: 2014-09-16 06:58 am (UTC)I think that was the central message.
Also, very much with you in how it's CALLED 'Listen' but people don't.
Although this is my favourite summary (and surprisingly accurate):
Listen is basically the Doctor getting himself all worked up in the middle of the night and making Clara come check the closet for monsters.
(The twist being that Clara is the monster. <3)
(Oh and did you mean to leave this bit outside of a cut?
'The Doctor in this episode LISTENS to Clara tell him as a small boy that fear is not necessarily a bad thing, and it is okay to be afraid, and he, in turn, imparts to Clara some of what she told him.'
I would deem it pretty spoilery... Although there's no context, but even so.) (Yes, I am a spoiler-phobe, looking out for others. *g*)
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Date: 2014-09-17 02:39 am (UTC)Yeah, I read rarhirah's interpretation in the other thread. And while I can see why you and rahirah both interpreted it that way and prefer it, it doesn't quite work for me nor do I interpret it that way. (This goes to the whole point of my post - how our interpretations of what we read change the conversation and change the meaning. Each interpretation changing the show, work, etc. Which is kinda cool if you think about it. I honestly do not believe there is one way or a right way to interpret content. Each person brings their own perspective, and own view - making the content far richer as a result and more interesting.)
So thanks for sharing your perception. It explains how you view things. But can you see through my post - how others may have viewed it differently and why it may have bothered them?
I don't think we'll necessarily ever know what Moffat intended, unless he tells us - and where's the fun in that? And even if we did know, is it important? Art changes once it is put out there. After all, my intent in posting this - was not to tell you how to interpret the Doctor Who episode, but to share my thoughts regarding the episode, what fascinated or resonated for me in it, and why. But you just saw that my interpretation was different than yours and felt the need to correct it - missing the intent of my post, completely and changing the conversation completely in the process. (A perfect example by the way of how the listener or reader can change the intent of work by their reaction to it - or the conversation.)
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Date: 2014-09-17 06:32 am (UTC)As it happens I have since found more context for the episode, so my own interpretation has been given a different slant. :)