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A post I read on DW last night - haunted me today. Social media does that occasionally, as did letters back in the day.

It was about interpreting text. The reason it haunts me - is well it occurred to me that I've been interpreting and analyzing and arguing over interpretations of text for over forty years, and do it for a living.
I'm a contract specialist - I debate contractual language with contractors daily, and interpret it for them.

Today, for example, we had a meeting in which we basically argued over contractual language with a construction contractor. We've been doing this for weeks now, and going in a circle. It can be very frustrating explaining to someone that their interpretation of the text is a) radical, b) their own isolated interpretation, and c) not proven by anything actually in the text. Not helped by cultural and language barriers. This requires a great deal of patience and stamina.

So if I get a little impatient with folks in fandoms, DW, or other social media regarding interpretations of text - that's probably why - I've been doing it at work all day long. I've had enough. Not always, but often.

Example from meeting?
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Sigh. This is unfortunately typical. I had a fight with a contractor once over whether the contract stated that he could only charge 5% on materials, and that bonds and insurance were inclusive of overhead. I underlined the text in the contract and highlighted it. And he kept telling me that this wasn't how he interpreted it. To wit - I stated, "look, you can't interpret it however you wish - the language states it clearly, a judge will not rule in your favor on this - and if you want to rally it up the flag pole, and further delay your payment - we can send it to legal." He caved.

I remember one time, I let the project team and the contractor yell at each other for two hours over lunch, while I ate my lunch (this was during the pandemic and we were working remotely and doing negotiations virtually on our computers via teams). They finally stopped. And I told them they could either go with what we had decided, or we could continue negotiating. They asked if they could have another meeting tomorrow. I said, no, I could go all night. They said - they were hungry, wasn't I hungry. No, I'd eaten my lunch while they were yelling at each other. Settle it at the negotiated amount. They caved. (They were really hungry.)

What haunted me from last night post (which shall remain nameless) is an English Lit Professor informed a student (the poster) that the following interpretation of Pride and Prejudice was a plausible interpretation of the text: "Elizabeth hated Darcy and only married him to save her family." Stating this was plausible, even if we may not like it.

Okay, it has been admittedly twenty years since I've read the book or fifteen years since I watched the film for that matter - but that is not a plausible interpretation of Pride and Prejudice. I'm beginning to wonder about some of these teachers. The former English Lit Major in me had a hissy fit. Pride and Prejudice is several things - a romance, a comedy of manners, and light satire - what is not is a tragedy or Thomas Hardy, Emily Bronte, or for that matter, Richardson, Thackery, etc.

I mentioned this to mother, who has read it far more recently. And has recently rewatched the film. She was appalled.
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* The Maine Shooting is horrible, and most likely the result of people twisting facts and information to promote their own perceptions of reality.

Y2/D356...

Mar. 7th, 2022 06:31 pm
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Ah the countdown to Y3 begins, which I'm not doing. So this daily log is ending at Y/D365. After D365, we're going back to our previously scheduled programming on this journal - which is basically me posting whenever and whatever I please. It could be anything really. It's not all that different than what I'm doing now - just not necessarily every day.

Good news? BYT approved my vacation day for Wednesday. So, I get my birthday off at least. Also got the Addendum out. (I had to fight to get the thing out - with BB and BYT's help. We were having fun with charts today - we work for a state agency and they are not only very bureaucratic, but also insanely disorganized, with poor tracking systems, and constant charts tracking things...which no one can make heads or tails of. This in a nutshell is why pure socialism is a bad idea. If you think the government is better at running things than corporations? You'd be wrong. It's kind of a toss-up honestly, I'm not sure which is worse half the time.)

[Mother felt the need to tell me that my brother came down into the city on Sunday to visit friends - it was a party of sorts, and the restaurant was more crowded than they anticipated - although the vaccine requirement was in effect. They stayed the night in a hotel - and went home the next morning. I'm very glad I can experience NYC without spending money on a hotel. Hotel's are bloody expensive in this city. Mother likes to gossip.]

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We discussed West Side Story at work today. Mel agreed with me, and was very pleased that I had the same take on the film that she and her husband did (he's Latino). Which was the 1961 film was the better adaptation.
Waiting to get Gabe's take.

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Chidi had mixed feelings about Batman. He told me I might like it better than he did and should see it in the theater - since it's beautifully shot. I decided to wait for it to come out on HBO Max - it's too violent, and I'd rather not watch a dark, violent action movie at the moment on a big screen. My first movie theater post-Omnicron is calling to be Doctor Strange and the Multi-Verse of Madness, I think.

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Plodding away on my revisions of my 800 page novel. We'll see where it goes. Or if I continue. The scarf that I'm knitting doesn't look too bad. Although I think my counting got off somewhere in there.

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I looked at the news, it's depressing. Wales feels the need to keep me apprised of the nastiness in the news. She's worse than my mother, who has actually gotten better now that my father is in the long-term facility more or less permanently. (Alzhiemer's is a horrible disease, there is no cure, and all you can do is make the person as comfortable as possible. Mother can't take care of him - hence the long-care facility.)

Regarding the Ukraine. I live in NYC, we have a lot of Ukrainian immigrants in NYC. At the company that I worked for prior to crazy org - aka the video game company, I was seated next to a woman who had immigrated from the Ukraine. She was lovely and kind, and we had long conversations about her homeland - and why she left. Also how Russia had destroyed it prior to the Ukraine finally claiming its independence - this was in the early 00s.

Anyhow...Crazy Org asked for medical supplies - but it was the agency in Manhattan that was requesting them (Transit), so I couldn't do anything.

Here's an interesting article I found via Twitter on the Ilya Kaminisky on Ukrainan, Russian, and the Language of War

A crowd, including local media, was gathered around Boris as he spoke out against the bombings, against yet another fake humanitarian aid campaign of Putin’s. Some clapped; others shook their heads in disapproval. A few months later, the doors, floors, and windows of Boris’s apartment were blown up.

There are many stories like this. They’re often shared in short, hurried sentences, and then the subject is changed abruptly.

“Truthful war books,” Orwell wrote, “are never acceptable to non-combatants.”

When Americans ask about recent events in Ukraine, I think of these lines from Boris’s poem:

people carry explosives around the city
in plastic shopping bags and little suitcases.


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Over the last twenty years, Ukraine has been governed by both the Russian-speaking East and the Ukrainian-speaking West. The government periodically uses “the language issue” to incite conflict and violence, an effective distraction from the real problems at hand. The most recent conflict arose in response to the inadequate policies of President Yanukovych, who has since escaped to Russia. Yanukovych was universally acknowledged as the most corrupt president the country has ever known (he’d been charged with rape and assault, among other things, all the way back to Soviet times). However, these days, Ukraine’s new government continues to include oligarchs and professional politicians with shrewd pedigrees and questionable motivations.

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Thunderstorm. Lightening. Hard rain. Wind. And the smell of the tropics.
Yet, it is winter in NYC. However, it smells like Florida at the moment.
I like the smell of rain, particularly warm rain.

Been quick to tears of late. Very weepy. Not sure why. Most likely menopause.

NYC has decided to lift the vaccine and mask mandates in restaurants, and indoor establishments - dammit. Just when I was getting up the courage to see a movie or a Broadway show, or go out to eat. The Mayor thinks this will encourage a return to normalcy and more people will go out to eat, etc. (Uhm no.)

Mother tells me that my brother feels the same way that I do. That he doesn't want to travel either.

Me: And yet he is.
Mother: Well, yes and no. He is coming down to help me, and he did travel into the city by train to see friends, and they'll go out in June to pick up their daughter from the UK, but no plans to do anything over there.
Me: Meanwhile I've not been anywhere but my workplace and back, and well Hilton Head in December, and Valatie, NY in July, but not sure that counts.

The worst bit? Mother is scared to go to church. It has no restrictions, no vaccine mandates, no masks, people can do whatever they want. And she can't afford to get COVID or get sick for that matter - she has teeth and knee surgery coming up, plus is visiting my father. Getting sick in December - scared her. And she got sick because of her stupid church. It scared both of us. [Bad Catholics. Bad.]

I've decided her Catholic Church is being very bad. (I was raised Catholic even though I am Unitarian Universalist). It's not being a good Christian or Catholic denomination. It's selfish. Instead of putting public health, the health of the community, the elderly, and others first - it's putting its own greed and convenience first.

Wouldn't it be nice if the Universe aka God would still "smite" bad people and organizations? Like in the old testament stories? You don't wear masks and don't get vaccinated and infect someone with COVID? SMITE! SMITE! Or you preach Putin was right to go to war with the Ukraine? SMITE! SMITE! Or you allow idiots to wander about your church without masks or vaccination? SMITE! SMITE!

Of course we'd probably all be dead, but still.

[Note I don't believe that God ever smited things, or any of that biblical stuff, I'm joking. I think the Bible is mostly a work of fiction or mythology. I don't take it that seriously. ]

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Eh, here...have a picture:

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Been flirting with television series.

1. Just finished Masters of the Universe : Relevations, which was written by Kevin Smith (of Clerks fame). Apparently, He-Man and Masters of the Universe has a fandom. Who knew? And they are all busy rebooting it in various forms. First She-Rah, now this.

This has the vocal talents of Sarah Michelle Gellar (Tessla), Chris Wood (Adam/He-Man), Mark Hamill (Skeletor), Lena Hedly (Evilynn), and Liam Cunningham (Master of Arms). I only recognized Gellar, who has a distinctive voice. Hamill can disguise his voice. Oh, also Kevin Conroy did Merman.

The plot surprised me. spoilers )

The animation was pretty good. There's only five episodes, and a second season on order.

2. I'm flirting with Voltron - which is based on or rather a reboot of a cartoon that I was a fan of way back in the 1980s - Battle of the Planets which eventually morphed into Voltron. It's on Netflix, and is a reboot of the original Voltron. I was a fan of the anime cartoons.

Another one is Sailor Moon - which has a two-part movie on Netflix. (I'm picky about animation.) So mixed feelings about that one.

Also finishing Mandalorian, and watching Tenet, Hacks, and White Lotus on HBO Max. There's so many television shows to watch and so little time and mind-space for them.

3.Was thinking about this today - I've had various actors, directors, and writers ruined for me over the years. I can't bring myself to watch or read or see their art any longer. I know it's kind of silly - because I know folks are more than one thing. Our actions shouldn't define us. People aren't simple creatures, we're complex ones.

But..I can't watch or read these folks without seeing their transgressions right now.

* Tom Hiddleston (my brother ruined him for me - when I visited him. Ugh. Although good news, he only ruined Loki and I didn't like Loki that much anyhow.)

* Bill Cosby

* JK Rowling

* Mel Gibson

* Woody Allen

* Roman Polanski

* Orson Scott Card

* Marion Zimmer Bradley

* James Franco

* Joss Whedon

[Do you have any that have been ruined for you?]

Note I did not say why for a reason - I don't want to foist my dislike onto you.

4. I'm wondering if we've gotten a bit too politically correct in our speech again - as a reaction to the last four years? I get annoyed when people go overboard with semantics.
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5. The outdoor dining establishment around the corner from where I live was destroyed in a car crash today, apparently. Angelica's Outdoor Dining Destroyed in Kensington

The comments to the FB announcement of it?

J: This is awful, but sometimes bikes ride on sidewalks.
T: A bike didn’t do this.
J: that’s the point I am making….
D: what is the point you are trying to make?
J: people on this group constantly complain about bikes being dangerous but cars are what’s killing people and causing damage like this
J: this is why bikes and scooters ride on the sidewalk.
T:couldn’t agree with you more

Me: while from a pedestrian perspective, if there were no such thing as bikes, scooters or cars - life would be good. Take the frigging subway and trains folks - those are safe and you don't kill innocent people.

Also, COVID is killing the wrong people.

6. Gender Neutral Bathroom at the new Penn Station aka Monyhian Station.
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1. The difficulty about talking about certain things...is that everyone feels the need to relate them back to their own experience, when the truth is that some things just aren't relatable. Not everyone for example experiences sex the same way or has the same urges or the same fantasies or the same desires etc. Some people are monogamist -- they can only do it with one person, it has to be someone they love deeply and trust deeply, and have a commitment to -- otherwise it will not work. Others are more polygamist -- and can do it with a lot of different people, and love isn't an issue. And the spectrum in between. For some -- sex is a deeply intimate and personal thing, for others it's not.

Another example? Pain. There's been medical studies on this one. (There may be ones on sex too, I don't know, I haven't looked.)

(Correction, I did just look it up but alas, not a lot of links on sex...Did like this quote though from Planned Parenthood:

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* MRI Shows that People Feel Pain Differently
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* Brain imaging confirms that people experience pain differently

* Not Everyone Hurts the Same Way - LA Times

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I find it reassuring in a way to know this. And the gist? Yes we're different.

Moral: Don't compare yourself to other people. It's impossible and just makes you miserable.

2. 38 Wonderful Words With No English Equivalent

Hee.

Here's a sampling...of some of my favs. I particularly like Kummerspeck and Tartle.

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3. Why You Never See Your Friends Any More

I doubt this is the reason, but it's reassuring to know I'm not the only one.

4. Why Office Worker Can't Sleep and Why That's Bad

Hardly surprising. Too much blue light and not enough sunlight. I have very little during the day at work. And everyone around me struggles with sleep as well. Meanwhile the work place keeps sending out safety advisories on getting enough sleep. I'd like to send them this article -- if you made it possible for everyone to get sunlight, and work more from home with flexible hours -- then you wouldn't have a problem.

Sort of hard to do for a huge organization.

5. Founders removal from office is not the only purpose of impeachment
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1. Just finished reading Powers of X #3 by Jonathan Hickman and RB Silva -- and my theory was correct, the flash-forward is in reality a flash-backward to one of Moira's previous lives. The series should be called the Many Lives of Moira McTaggert, which makes me think of the Disney flick about the cat that I saw as a wee tot, The Many Lives of Thomasina. Also it falls within the time travel explanation that the quatuum physicists attempted to explain to the MCU writers -- which is that you can't change the past, all you do is create another time line or reality.Read more... )

2. Walter Mercado - couldn't have predicted this -- Miami exhibit honoring the Puerto Rican astrologer who opened a window into self-care and spiritual wellness for millions of viewers
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3. How Language Shapes Our Perception of Reality

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4. How to Learn a Foreign Language as an Adult

I don't know. Learning a language is tough unless you immerse yourself. Although, I could try Spanish or Russian and easily find people to try it out on with no problems. I'm not in Kansas any more.

5. Making progress with Time Served by Juliana Keyes which is better than expected. Read more... )

6. Difficult morning commute. Read more... )

7. In other news, I'm contemplating attempting online dating again. Read more... )

Oh and, today is my parents' 54th wedding anniversary. They got married two years before I was born.

8. Veronica Mars. Read more... )
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